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This is my last LO

ruffle&rustruffle&rust member
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Last night while putting together the crib i just started crying knowing this will be my last LO. I walk in the room and stare at the crib and decor and i'm overwhelmed with all these different emotions.

This baby will make 3

Just makes me sad...

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Re: This is my last LO

  • ablouablou member
    Well, judging from your picture, and previous posts, you're going to have a beautiful and completely awesome kid! 
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  • ruffle&rustruffle&rust member
    Thank you!! You just made my day!
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  • epphdepphd member
    Due to my pathetic reproductive abilities, in all likelihood I will only have this one - three is marvelous and you are very lucky :)  Enjoy every minute.
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  • vmm0016vmm0016
    My friend just cried when she look the crib down the other day.  Her son is 1 1/2 years old.  I don't know if this will be our only one or not.  I will be sad too; if it is!  Sad
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  • BinksMomma3016BinksMomma3016 member
    I know, I keep thinking about that too! We havent decide if two is all or if we will try one more time. But I keep thinking that this might be it and it makes me kinda sad
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  • ruffle&rustruffle&rust member

    imageepphd:
    Due to my pathetic reproductive abilities, in all likelihood I will only have this one - three is marvelous and you are very lucky :)  Enjoy every minute.

    Oh i hope this didn't come off as insensitive to anyone who has struggled with having just one. I know i'm truly blessed for what i've been given!

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  • epphdepphd member
    Brandi - not at all :)  Maybe it's a blessing in disguise that I don't get sad thinking about this one as my only one - that I'm just thrilled to have this one. 
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  • ruffle&rustruffle&rust member

    imageepphd:
    Brandi - not at all :)  Maybe it's a blessing in disguise that I don't get sad thinking about this one as my only one - that I'm just thrilled to have this one. 

    I will adopt this mentality, as well! : )

    Thank You!

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  • CalifloridaCaliflorida member

    i keep saying this one will be my last, but maybe i'm fooling myself? 

    your family is beautiful :)

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  • BoSoxbrideBoSoxbride member
    I know how you feel. This is number 3 and the final one for us, too. It's bittersweet.
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  • nickyh7nickyh7
    I'm estatic knowing I'll never have to be pregnant again! :)
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  • luckyangelluckyangel member

    I know how you feel.  Dh and I have custody of his 3 kids from his 1st marriage.  I love them to death and since they have no contact with their biological mom by court order...we are super super close.  This is MY first baby though...and we agreed that this would be the only one because its the best decision financially and because our house just isnt big enough for 2 more.  I got choked up the other day thinking about that...I always wanted 2 of my own...and it doesnt look like I will have that.  

    Its rough!   

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  • karaokerampergirlkaraokerampergirl
    This is my last one too, My husband got a vasectomy the day after my first appt. I know it wasn't planned but now that I'm pregnant I'm sad this is my last time.
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  • JulieandBenJulieandBen member

    I really wanted my son to have a brother. Now that he will have a brother I'm a little sad that he will never have a sister. My husband will be 41 next month and is dead set against three. I always wanted two kids. I'm a bit sad that it seems it will just be these two. Not that I'm not blessed to have these two. I know I am. It's just sad to think this is it. It's weird since I am such a boys type of mom. Anyway, I'm just rambling. I understand how you feel though.
     

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  • projectkjetilprojectkjetil

    This will be my last too.  Even though people know it took me 2+ years to have this one, they still ask who will carry the next one.  It's a little sad to answer, "neither of us, this is it!" even though we've always planned for two.

    I guess it just helps us enjoy this pregnancy and this baby all the more, right?

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