Even DH thinks this girl is nuts.
One of our friends has been dating this girl for a few months. She isn't very nice.. she's not mean but you can tell she has an attitude.
We all went out this weekend. DH and I were the last to get there, so everyone was sitting around and hanging out when we got here. When this girl stood up, I remember thinking she's pregnant. She had a total bloat/first tri belly. She's super skinny, so it wasn't hard to see. I didn't say anything. Later I saw her drink a beer, so I was like well, guess not on the pregnancy thing.
Yah, TOO BAD SHE IS PREGNANT. DH found out that night, from his friend. They have only been together for 3 months, so unless it's not his, she's still in the first trimester.
Not only is she pregnant, but her 2 year old is in CPS/police custody because the Dad (not DH's friend, some other dude) called her in since the kid had a bunch of bruises and he reported her babysitter/daycare.
She got the call about her kid being taken that day, went out and drank while pregnant with #2.. she's probably like 10 weeks maybe? Freaking classy.
Re: WTH.. bad parent much?
You'd think she would have learned from #1!
Niiiiiiiice.
Another client of the foster care system in on the way.
Poor baby. And its big brother. Sad.
Maybe someone came along and slapped her with the dumb-dumb stick?
That's the only thing that could explain that type of behavior!
This exactly! I get sooo mad when people act like they are "supposed" to have kids.
When did she tell everyone she was pregnant?
Maybe she wasn't ready to tell yet (if she hadn't told already when you were hanging out) and did the whole water-in-the-beer-bottle thing?
Not trying to be on her side or anything, because obviously she's got the bad parent gene (I have no tolerance for terrible parents - we've got three (yes, I said THREE *dies*) foster kids in my house right now, all with serious issues because their parents were &*#$*&#$*&^#$s.) Just offering up a different point of view.
It was beer out of a clear glass mug.. it was beer. ?trust me.. LOL
I dont think she wanted everyone to know, but DH's friend got hammered and spilled the beans.. He's known for a while (the father, not DH).. it wasn't planned.. and since I'm pregnant, I think it was more of a you can relate thing, than him being a *** and telling everyone.
We'll see, hopefully she gets it together.
BFP #3 -mm/c @ 7wks, discovered at 9wks, D&C 9/28
BFP #4 5/29 EDD 2/9 - please be our rainbow