2nd Trimester

WTH.. bad parent much?

Even DH thinks this girl is nuts.

One of our friends has been dating this girl for a few months.  She isn't very nice.. she's not mean but you can tell she has an attitude. 

We all went out this weekend.  DH and I were the last to get there, so everyone was sitting around and hanging out when we got here.  When this girl stood up, I remember thinking she's pregnant.  She had a total bloat/first tri belly.  She's super skinny, so it wasn't hard to see.  I didn't say anything.  Later I saw her drink a beer, so I was like well, guess not on the pregnancy thing.

Yah, TOO BAD SHE IS PREGNANT.  DH found out that night, from his friend.  They have only been together for 3 months, so unless it's not his, she's still in the first trimester.

Not only is she pregnant, but her 2 year old is in CPS/police custody because the Dad (not DH's friend, some other dude) called her in since the kid had a bunch of bruises and he reported her babysitter/daycare. 

She got the call about her kid being taken that day, went out and drank while pregnant with #2.. she's probably like 10 weeks maybe?  Freaking classy. 

Re: WTH.. bad parent much?

  • Surprise

    You'd think she would have learned from #1!

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  • Oh my goodness. That is definately sad.
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  • Some people's children shouldn't breed.
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  • Niiiiiiiice.

    Another client of the foster care system in on the way.

    Poor baby.  And its big brother.  Sad.

  • I forgot, she's a NURSE too. 
  • imageMrsDeLaVara:
    I forgot, she's a NURSE too. 

    Maybe someone came along and slapped her with the dumb-dumb stick?

    That's the only thing that could explain that type of behavior!

  • ugh, it makes me sad people like her have children and so many awesome people that want kids can't have them
  • imagejessiecow:
    ugh, it makes me sad people like her have children and so many awesome people that want kids can't have them

    This exactly! I get sooo mad when people act like they are "supposed" to have kids.

  • When did she tell everyone she was pregnant?

    Maybe she wasn't ready to tell yet (if she hadn't told already when you were hanging out) and did the whole water-in-the-beer-bottle thing?

    Not trying to be on her side or anything, because obviously she's got the bad parent gene (I have no tolerance for terrible parents - we've got three (yes, I said THREE *dies*) foster kids in my house right now, all with serious issues because their parents were &*#$*&#$*&^#$s.) Just offering up a different point of view.

  • It was beer out of a clear glass mug.. it was beer. ?trust me.. LOL

    I dont think she wanted everyone to know, but DH's friend got hammered and spilled the beans.. He's known for a while (the father, not DH).. it wasn't planned.. and since I'm pregnant, I think it was more of a you can relate thing, than him being a *** and telling everyone.

    We'll see, hopefully she gets it together.

  • ZAngelZAngel member
    I don't think the beer would be a bad thing as long as it was only one and she doesn't do that on a regular basis.  With that info alone, I wouldn't judge.  However, the fact that CPS has her other kid tells me she probably isn't the most responsible person to begin with.  If CPS takes your children, you've obviously done something wrong.  I am kinda confused why the child wouldn't go to the father though???
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