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so sad

whit022109whit022109 member
in 2nd Trimester

i was bored and lurking on 1st tri when i came across this:

https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/19688133.aspx

ive never heard of someone being able to identify their LO that early in a miscarriage. i cant imagine going through a mc and seeing that. i feel so terrible for anyone who has had to experience anything like that and i feel very blessed to be this far in my pregnancy. i wish everyone a healthy pregnancy and LO!

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  • jkyliejkylie member

    wow, yes very sad. I can't imagine either!! WOW and quite honestly I wouldn't even think to try "save/grab" the baby that early on either.

    She seems to be very at peace right now which is good to know. Such a sad sad story.

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  • shainababygirlshainababygirl

    The same thing happened to me with my first pregnancy... we had a missed miscarriage and so I KNEW I had lost the baby... but it was still a horrible experience. I'm eternally grateful that I had a natural miscarriage and not a D&C.

    She does seem incredibly at peace... which is a good thing. I think it helped me with my closure as well. I wish her the best (and will tell her that as well). 

     

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  • BoSoxbrideBoSoxbride member
    I had the same experience in February, but I did not catch the baby. I did sit on the floor next to the toilet and stare at the baby for nearly an hour. I have to say though, that I wish I hadn't seen it. It's an image that will be burned in my mind until the day I die.
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  • tnd1218tnd1218 member
    Im in tears right now. I cant imagine her pain. She seems to be at peace and very strong right now. That is very sad.

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  • sspylessspyles member
    Oh my goodness, that is one of the saddest things I have ever heard. Ladies who have been through this, my heart is with you.
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