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Dh is clueless

breechbreech
in 2nd Trimester

everytime we see a VERY pregnant woman he looks at me and says "see thats what a pregnant woman looks like, you dont even look pregnant"

um...okay. im sure he's trying to be nice, but by the time the words get to my ears it sound like " see thats what you are supposed to look like, you just look like a big fat blob"

This is is especially offensive to me b/c i have gotten HUGE this pregnancy, not fat, but my belly is definately there. im way bigger than i was with my two other pregnancys.   just thought i'd share :)

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  • essey1234essey1234 member
    try not to let it bother you, or just tell him it does( because they are all different) he will see the change soon enough. i compare to everyone at the same stage and to some i am tiny to others i am huge
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  • realisticdreamsrealisticdreams member
    Next time he says it, ask him if he's shooting for most supportive husband of the year or what.  Maybe the smartass comment will clue him in.
    DD1(4):VSD & PFO (Closed!), Prenatal stroke, Mild CP, Delayed pyloric opening/reflux, Brachycephaly & Plagiocephaly, Sacral lipoma, Tethered spinal cord, Compound heterozygous MTHFR, Neurogenic bladder, Urinary retention & dyssynergia, incomplete emptying, enlarged Bladder with Poor Muscle Tone, EDS-Type 3. Mito-Disorder has been mentioned

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  • tklmechris98tklmechris98
    If my husband said this to me... I would find a really diesel guy with muscles and say "hey you see that guy over there, that's what a husband should really look like."  see how he feels.
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  • realisticdreamsrealisticdreams member

    imagetklmechris98:
    If my husband said this to me... I would find a really diesel guy with muscles and say "hey you see that guy over there, that's what a husband should really look like."  see how he feels.

    lmao.  ditto

    DD1(4):VSD & PFO (Closed!), Prenatal stroke, Mild CP, Delayed pyloric opening/reflux, Brachycephaly & Plagiocephaly, Sacral lipoma, Tethered spinal cord, Compound heterozygous MTHFR, Neurogenic bladder, Urinary retention & dyssynergia, incomplete emptying, enlarged Bladder with Poor Muscle Tone, EDS-Type 3. Mito-Disorder has been mentioned

    DD2(2.5): Late term premie due to PTL, low fluid & IUGR, Reflux, delayed visual maturation, compound heteroygous MTHFR, PFAPA, Bilateral kidney reflux, Transient hypogammaglobulinemia, EDS-Type 3


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