i was wondering if anyone's doctor told them they had to wait to get their 1st ultrasound done at 18- 20 and if so why? cause my doctor won't do one on me till i'm18-20 weeks unless he thinks there is something wrong but its driving me nuts lol. i like my doctor but i'm kinda concerned that he does not care about my pregnancy like i'd like just wondering if its normal or if i should find another doctor.....
Re: ultrasounds?
I get my first u/s monday at 6 w. I am seeing an RE so it's a bit different, but still! I would def see another doctor!
GL!?
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It is apparently normal, but that does not mean you cannot ask your doctor if he is sure you cannot have one earlier. Or find a new one (but before changing I would ask the your insurance company and the new dr. their policy on ultrasounds.) My insurance company covers as many as ordered by the dr. I just had my first today, and will probably have my next (and last) at 20 weeks, but I did ask for the earlier ultrasound to confirm my date and also to see if there are twins (which run heavily in my family) and my dr. was like, well, let's see about that after your exam, and she said I *may* not be as far along as I thought and so she ordered one. I was exactly as far along as I thought, but the bonus was I got to see my baby and hear and see the heartbeat! It was awesome!
I think it sucks to have to wait 20 weeks to see your baby! It just does not seem real until you see him or her.