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Had a dream I m/c

This is awful. This is my worst fear. My mom lost 3 babies and my SIL lost her first, so I'm extremely paranoid about this. In my dream, I went to the bathroom and started bleeding really badly. I opened the door and told DH I was losing the baby and he was pretty much uninterested. I called the dr and they told me to go to the ER and I kept telling them I did not want to go there b/c I'd have to wait forever, etc. etc. I know I shouldn't worry about it, but doesn't every woman in her first tri? I really hope that dreams don't come true. I guess there's really no point in this post, I just had to tell someone.
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Re: Had a dream I m/c

  • I'm sorry you had such a terrible dream! ?

    Its really hard not to worry, especially in the beginning.?

    The best advice I can give is just to take care of yourself and have faith that everything is going to be just fine! Try not to let the worry consume you. Just enjoy that today you are PG and have awesome beta numbers!

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  • Oh, that is a terrible dream.  I had a few dreams that something happened to the baby during the first 8-10 weeks, but none quite as vivid.  I always woke up in a panic and then couldn't get it out of my head.  Trust me though, it does get better.  I still get nervous before my appts even at 20 weeks, but the rest of the time I just enjoy being pregnant. 

    I hope your  dream doesn't come true either and that you have much happier dreams tonight.

  • First of all HUGS.  What a terrible dream!!   But I know how you feel.  I was very paranoid about m/c in the first tri.  The m/c posts on first tri didn't help either.  All you can really do is relax as much as possible and put it in God's hands.  Everything will be ok - but I know, easier said than done. 
  • I am so sorry!  It's crazy because last night I had a dream I m/c too!  My dream wasn't as detailed as that though...I just remember going to the bathroom and realizing it was pink/red in the toilet and getting very sad. 

    It is so hard not worry about a m/c but you just have to try and relax and take care of yourself like pp's said.   

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  • what a horrible dream.  i'm sorry.

    i was also a nervous wreck until over halfway through my pg.  all i can say is that it gets easier.  hang in there.

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  • I'm so sorry you had that dream.  The best thing to do is to think positively and relax. 
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