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If your DH was your one and only...

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Do you ever wonder what it would like to be with anyone else?
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  • MrsBro6116MrsBro6116

    DH wasn't my one and only... Embarrassed

    ::skulks off into a corner::

    Hi Monkey! 

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  • Melaina25Melaina25 member
    I'm interested to hear as well...
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  • kristen6kristen6 member
    Every once in awhile, I wonder what how I would be different if I had slept with someone before him.  I'm 100% confident I made the right decision, though, and I have no regrets. 
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  • Autumn_bride2bAutumn_bride2b member
    No. I guess that means I'm happy? Or boring.
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  • Kie310Kie310 member
    I have -- but I don't regret it. I'm a very self conscious person & it took a while for me to get really use to my husband (well, he was my BF at the time)... and now it's just so comfortable that I don't think I would ever want to have to go through that again!
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  • rssnlvrrssnlvr
    Of course...but the conclusion I come to every time is that no other man would know me as well as he does and be able to do the things that he does. Wink
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  • engrider18engrider18 member

    imageM.Monkey.:
    Do you ever wonder what it would like to be with anyone else?

    Yes. I sometimes wish I had experienced it with someone else but I would never trade my first time being with him.

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  • bannedmonkeybannedmonkey

    imageAutumn_bride2b:
    No. I guess that means I'm happy? Or boring.

    Definitely not boring. Happy sounds like a good answer to me!

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  • 11Lemon1111Lemon11

    Not that I go day dreaming about anyone else because DH is great at what he does Wink, but I would be terrified to sleep with someone else. 

    (we didn't wait until we were married its just we've been together since high school and, don't tell me parents, started having sex at 17. Yet his is my one and only and I'm his one and only)

     

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  • OneDayAtaTimeX87OneDayAtaTimeX87 member

    I've wondered but only wonder like "what if chocolate ice cream is better than vanilla" or wonder if in europe they have blah blah blah..just a very general thinking. But everytime i arrive at the thought that i think it is super special the gift i gave to him and myself and i made the right decision for me.

    :)

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  • bannedmonkeybannedmonkey
    imageMrsBro6116:

    DH wasn't my one and only... Embarrassed

    ::skulks off into a corner::

    Hi Monkey! 

    No sulking!! It's Friday!! How are you?

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  • Mrs.M317Mrs.M317 member

    I have thought about what it would be like with someone else.  But I think it would take me a long time to get to that point with someone else.  I would be incredibly self-conscious and uncomfortable.

    Other men may enter my fantasies from time to time though... 

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  • beanie00914beanie00914

    yes the thought ha gone through my mind early on in our relationship when things got very serious, but in the next thought I remember how long it took me to really feel comfortable with DH, and that if something isnt broken dont fix it Wink

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  • MrsBro6116MrsBro6116
    imageM.Monkey.:
    imageMrsBro6116:

    DH wasn't my one and only... Embarrassed

    ::skulks off into a corner::

    Hi Monkey! 

    No sulking!! It's Friday!! How are you?

    I'm good! Sooo happy its Friday. Harry Potter tonight for me!

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  • lcs851lcs851 member
    i have always believed you didn't need to be with someone else to know that what you got is special and amazing...so i am happy with my limited experiences...no regrets!!!
    1st BFP 9/26/2009 - Ectopic Pregnancy 10/6/2009 @ 5w3d Failed IVF discovered I have a tyroid issues dec 2010 2nd BFP 12/22/2012, another ectopic pregnancy 3rd BFP 1/14/2013 ...not ectopic!!! Healthy beautiful daughter born on 10/2/2013 4th BFP 3/26/2015 EDD is 12/6/2015
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  • Katiedid81Katiedid81 member
    I definitely have my "what if's"...but nothing too serious goes through my head! I am a happy gal, and still a bit surprised at the number of ladies who share my "secret" of having one partner!
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  • ondjimaondjima member
    No!! And I hope it is the same for him. I have dreamt about it though, but it is always with some person whose face I cannot see.  So I just tell myself it was him the next day.
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  • boxieboxie member

    Yes. but only in a fantasy type way.  And that was more towards the beginning.  In reality it would be disgusting, and I don't think I could go through with it without sobbing or vomiting.

    Some people never find love in life.  I am extraordinarily luckily to have found my life partner the first time.

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  • Stephanie2167Stephanie2167 member
    imageOneDayAtaTimeX87:

    I've wondered but only wonder like "what if chocolate ice cream is better than vanilla" or wonder if in europe they have blah blah blah..just a very general thinking. But everytime i arrive at the thought that i think it is super special the gift i gave to him and myself and i made the right decision for me.

    :)

    I agree with this exactly.


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  • BROCKSTARBROCKSTAR

    He wasn't my one and only but I am his. That thought crosses my mind on if he ever thinks that.

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  • shanmoyershanmoyer member
    I haven't ever wondered about having more experiences. We are each other's one and onlies - it's such an emotional and spiritual connection when you find that right person who just "fits" with you. I can't imagine having gone through that with anyone else.
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  • Brougham7-15-06Brougham7-15-06
    not really. I don't know anything else
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  • chick730chick730

    DH was my first and only..and I am the same for him.  We started dating when I was 15 so that is understandable.  I used to wonder what it would be like to be with someone else, but I love that we have only been with each other.  And I'm so glad that I didn't have to deal with the whole adult dating scene....that scares the crap out of me!

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  • nygirl07nygirl07 member
    I love that so many of you girls had your DH as your "one and only"....my fiancee is my one and only and I always thought I was odd b/c of that and would hate that people would say that you would regret it and wish you had other experiences..... I in know way regret it or have yet to think about being with somone else.  Like another person said he's GREAT and what he does and he knows what I like
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