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When you're a mom, there is no

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ME time.

I don't get what people expect. You have a baby. It's your JOB to take care of them. DUH. If you didn't want the responsibility then maybe you should have thought about that before you did the deed!

Am I the only one still hung up on that part of it?!

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  • JARbabyJARbaby member

    RIGHT THERE WITH YOU...

    I think she might be better on babygaga...I wonder how old she is?

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  • Pumpkin111Pumpkin111 member

    While I agree with your theory, I must respectfully disagree.

    There is no me time when it is in direct conflict with my child's well being..

    however, I have a husband who has awesome moments when he takes the sweet angel and allows me to head out for pedicures and time with the gals!  :) 

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  • NicavesaniNicavesani

    Amen sistah, Preach IT! 

    I totally agree with you... her whole thread is just ridiculous.  I couldn't wait to see the flaming!  

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  • GramysonGramyson member
    imageJARbaby:

    RIGHT THERE WITH YOU...

    I think she might be better on babygaga...I wonder how old she is?

    oh you ageist you!

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  • Pumpkin111Pumpkin111 member
    imageJARbaby:

    RIGHT THERE WITH YOU...

    I think she might be better on babygaga...I wonder how old she is?

    totally agree on the babygaga part.. I rec'ed in a below post!  haha

    Great minds, Jar, great minds!

    and her bio says she's 24

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  • achickylalaachickylala
    imagePumpkin111:

    While I agree with your theory, I must respectfully disagree.

    There is no me time when it is in direct conflict with my child's well being..

    however, I have a husband who has awesome moments when he takes the sweet angel and allows me to head out for pedicures and time with the gals!  :) 

    Oh yes, I understand where you're coming from. I'm not saying you can't GET time away, but don't expect to have the same life you had before. It just doesn't work that way. I just hate people who are in denial. And, at 24 you'd think she'd be bright enough to get that.

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  • WaitingforOlivia2009WaitingforOlivia2009
    Pumpkin I totally agree with you! Yes
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  • manda_mullinsmanda_mullins member
    imagePumpkin111:

    While I agree with your theory, I must respectfully disagree.

    There is no me time when it is in direct conflict with my child's well being..

    however, I have a husband who has awesome moments when he takes the sweet angel and allows me to head out for pedicures and time with the gals!? :)?

    ?

    I agree with this. An occasional break is nice but I know that LO is my life now.

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  • momma trixiemomma trixie
    AMEN!!!  My new Me time is me and my prince.  I cant imagine a better way to spend time than with my baby.  THey are only little for such a short time. 
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  • brandonsfuturewife07brandonsfuturewife07 member
    imagePumpkin111:
    imageJARbaby:

    RIGHT THERE WITH YOU...

    I think she might be better on babygaga...I wonder how old she is?

    totally agree on the babygaga part.. I rec'ed in a below post!  haha

    Great minds, Jar, great minds!

    and her bio says she's 24

    what's wrong with being 24?

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  • achickylalaachickylala
    Annnnddd... if your BF or FI and DH or Baby Daddy can't grow up & come home at a decent hour, help you out, or give you time alone then maybe it's time to drop him. If you're already being a "single" parent, whats the diff?!
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  • jl_ncjl_nc
    imagePumpkin111:

    While I agree with your theory, I must respectfully disagree.

    There is no me time when it is in direct conflict with my child's well being..

    however, I have a husband who has awesome moments when he takes the sweet angel and allows me to head out for pedicures and time with the gals!  :) 

    this. while i am the sole caretaker of DD, there is no me time. i am amazed that i ever get to pee or eat while i am home with her. but DH takes her for me so i can shower, run some errands etc. i cant seem to go out yet without her by myself yet...i feel too badly

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  • JARbabyJARbaby member
    imagePumpkin111:

    however, I have a husband who has awesome moments when he takes the sweet angel and allows me to head out for pedicures and time with the gals!  :) 

    allows, lol...remember that conversation, who other level of crackedupidness

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  • tlynnustlynnus
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    imagePumpkin111:

    While I agree with your theory, I must respectfully disagree.

    There is no me time when it is in direct conflict with my child's well being..

    however, I have a husband who has awesome moments when he takes the sweet angel and allows me to head out for pedicures and time with the gals!? :)?

    this. while i am the sole caretaker of DD, there is no me time. i am amazed that i ever get to pee or eat while i am home with her. but DH takes her for me so i can shower, run some errands etc. i cant seem to go out yet without her by myself yet...i feel too badly

    You are the sole caretaker?? Your DH only takes care of her when you shower? I really hope for your sake this isn't true.?

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  • pinkle08pinkle08
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    I wonder how old she is?

    Wow new to 0-6 and I'm 19. I don't think age has much to do with it. I worked for a nanny service and made the choice to start my family early. I know ppl judge by age but try to keep an open mind. I hope I don't get flamed for my age. I agree about the bar and also that you should be ready for a very different life after LO is born. Some ppl aren't ready for it and some of us have that great person for support.

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  • Pumpkin111Pumpkin111 member
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    imagePumpkin111:
    imageJARbaby:

    RIGHT THERE WITH YOU...

    I think she might be better on babygaga...I wonder how old she is?

    totally agree on the babygaga part.. I rec'ed in a below post!  haha

    Great minds, Jar, great minds!

    and her bio says she's 24

    what's wrong with being 24?

    E.V.E.R.Y.T.H.I.N.G.

    nah... jar was asking, I was answering.. nothing more. :)

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