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Some men should Not be fathers!

Belinda LBelinda L
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I have this one friend that got pregnant by her boyfriend and is 24 weeks along now. A few weeks ago she had her ultrasound and found out it was a girl. Her ass of a boyfriend threw a fit like a 2 year old because it was not a boy. Now he is no longer with her and wants nothing to do with the baby. What a jerk. I wish someone would just set him straight... in a physical way!
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Re: Some men should Not be fathers!

  • S/CambioS/Cambio
    Wow. I don't really know what to say to that. I'm shocked about how some people can act. Indifferent
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  • Kim B.Kim B.
    That is ridiculous...I hope your friend can strong and enjoy the rest of her pregnancy!
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  • *bunny**bunny*

    i would say he really wasn't that in love with her and really didn't want to be a dad either way and now he feels he can be justified in abandoning her. 

    he. is. a. d!ck.

    i wish all the best for your friend.

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  • Belinda LBelinda L
    Yeah... she has alot of support from family and friends. It just makes me sick.... I would expect this from a 16 year old, but come on this guy is 29! Shame on him! He should be more mature!
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  • LittleMamaBLittleMamaB

    Well, the upside is she is clearly better off without him.

    Best of luck to your friend and her baby girl!

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  • Anna&MattAnna&Matt member
    what an ass!
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  • GenesisTwo18GenesisTwo18

    That was an excuse for him to hit the door running, he will be back, and she just needs to get ready for his inconsistencies. ?Sounds like he will have plenty of excuses for not being a good father. ?My suggestion, leave the door open for his excuses to slam him right back in the face. ?

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  • karaokerampergirlkaraokerampergirl

    Unfortunately some men never figure it out.....

    My exhusband is 13yrs older than me, makes him 36 when I got pregnant he wanted to name our child "GOD" I'm not even joking, when I told him no way he refused to touch me for the rest of my pregnancy and had the nerve to act like he was the one doing all the work..... I really should have left him then but I was young and sooooooooooo stupid!!!  A couple weeks after our son was born he came home drunk one night and started crying in the fetal position on our kitchen floor saying I betrayed him and he didn't think he could ever forgive me..wtf?. And if that wasn't bad enough a couple weeks later we got into a fight and he said "that kid will always be my son but he'll never be my God".... I told him to leave... I was done. 

    And no he has not since grown up. So sad!!

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  • Belinda LBelinda L
    imageGenesisTwo18:

    That was an excuse for him to hit the door running, he will be back, and she just needs to get ready for his inconsistencies.  Sounds like he will have plenty of excuses for not being a good father.  My suggestion, leave the door open for his excuses to slam him right back in the face.  

    Thats what i said! she is way better off without him. I told her to get a paternity test and take him for what hes got.

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  • Belinda LBelinda L
    imagekaraokerampergirl:

    Unfortunately some men never figure it out.....

    My exhusband is 13yrs older than me, makes him 36 when I got pregnant he wanted to name our child "GOD" I'm not even joking, when I told him no way he refused to touch me for the rest of my pregnancy and had the nerve to act like he was the one doing all the work..... I really should have left him then but I was young and sooooooooooo stupid!!!  A couple weeks after our son was born he came home drunk one night and started crying in the fetal position on our kitchen floor saying I betrayed him and he didn't think he could ever forgive me..wtf?. And if that wasn't bad enough a couple weeks later we got into a fight and he said "that kid will always be my son but he'll never be my God".... I told him to leave... I was done. 

    And no he has not since grown up. So sad!!

     wow Surprise It sounds like he was a real nutcase!

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  • bkobko member
    All I have to say is WOW!  Some men shouldnt be able to Procreate either!
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  • Tchaikov32Tchaikov32
    image*bunny*:

    i would say he really wasn't that in love with her and really didn't want to be a dad either way and now he feels he can be justified in abandoning her. 

    he. is. a. d!ck.

    i wish all the best for your friend.

    I completely agree.  And wouldn't it be hysterical if it did turn out to be a boy anyway.  The jerk.  She'll find a strength she never even knew she had and that precious child will admire her all the more for it. 

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  • Anniekins214Anniekins214
    I hope that she realizes she's better off without him.  I'm sure she's upset now, but if he thinks girls are somehow inferior, she doesn't want him around that baby. 
    "Cool as Hell like e-mail, but still timeless like a letter."
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  • nicasmnicasm

    OMG what the hell? Im surprised he didnt just tell her to get rid of it or sell it on the black market.

    If he is such an ignorant sexist pig, that baby girl is going to be better off without him.

    Give me an address so I can go and make him incapaable of reproducing again?

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