TTC after 35

Oh CRAP!

I just got off the phone with the RE office and it looks like I'm going to have to wait a month for my IUI.  I'm ready to cry.  The need a new CD3 test and DH SA to get authorization since our last ones were almost 2 years ago.  I'm so pissed because the RE said we would do it next cycle and when I talked to the office manager she looked at my file saw she had my marriage license still, updated my insurance info and said she would take care of the auth.  Well, she never called me to say anything about needing the updated tests, so I thought we were good to go.

Then DH got all pissy with me when I handed the phone off to him to have him talk to her to schedule his SA.  I started to try to do it, but with his work schedule and his commute (1 hr.) it makes it difficult for me to know what time he is available.  He started ranting about me doing stuff to try and make his life just a little bit easier.  Damn I'm trying, but I can't do everything!

 Wow!  This has turned into a whole lot more.  I'm just really upset right now.

Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker TTC #1 Cycle #18 m/c Jan. 9, 2007, chemical pg May 4, 2007, methotrexate shot Oct. 5, 2007--m/c Oct. 9, 2007, IUI Nov. 17, 2007 It worked! beta 11/30 & 12/6 TTC #2 Cycle #5 IUI July 20, 2009 -BFN 8-3-09 Cycle #6 IUI August 17, 2009-BFP! 8-31-09, beta 9-1-09, 9-8-09, saw the H/B 9-22-09 EDD 5-10-10

Re: Oh CRAP!

  • Hi, Now.

    I understand totally where you're coming from - and I'm so sorry. The delays seem like eternities.

    And there is definitely something about SAs that make a lot of men - mine included - a little crazy!

     Hang in there.

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  • That stinks.  Sorry!

     

    What practice are you going to if you don't mind telling?  My appt later this month is with SGF.  I'm not asking to rant about them just curious since we live in the same area (I work in Falls Church).

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  • Well, that totally sucks!  I'm sorry that you are having a difficult morning.

  • That just sucks! I'm sorry!
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  • UGH!  How frustrating for you, expecially since you seemed to have all the bases covered on your end.

    The bright side is that 1 more month of trying on your own might mean you won't even need their services.

    GOOD LUCK!

    PS - I agree that the whole SA thing makes our men a little crazy.

  • My hubs has had 3 SA's now and it makes him crazy too.  I feel ya sista!

    It sucks you have to wait!I'm bummed we're not gonna be doing IUI together now!  Just go get your BFP this month without it!

    TTC #1, Cycle 22 - Jan 2009 IUI , Femara & Follistim: 7/21/09: BFN Multiple rounds of Clomid June 2012: Decided to move on to IVF after 3 more rounds of Clomid Sept 2012: Got a call from a friend asking us to adopt her baby
  • Ugh. That sucks. Hang in there...I hope you feel better :(
  • That just sucks!! Hopefully all this effort pays off with a BFP!
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  • DNA I hope your day got better. That is so frustrating that they RE's office didn't have their ducks in a row.  And I'm sorry DH didn't make it any easier on you either.  I hope that you get your BFP next month!
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  • I'm sorry you have to wait a cycle.  This TTC stuff sure does test your patience.  Here's hoping you get a BFP this cycle and don't need the IUI. 

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