People judge me when...

emmared1986 · July 2009

Lets just put it all out there! why not?

People judge me when they find out I got pregnant after dating my now DH for only 2 months. Good job he is the one!

What about you guys. Any confessions/judgements?

whit022109 · July 2009

whatever, im sure some of them were sleeping with their SOs after 2 months, they just didnt get pregnant! here, you can judge ME: i met DH freshman year of college, when i was still with HS boyfriend (didnt cheat). HS bf and i had been together 2.5 years and decided not to go past kissing...and then i lost my virginity to DH after 2 months of knowing him. hows THAT??

emmared1986 · July 2009

Your DH must have been one sexy mofo, LOL

snsgurl728 · July 2009

Some family was out visiting for my graduation and the night before we went to a steakhouse. There was a group of grandma-aged ladies who kept giving me dirty looks. I thought "My DH is next to me, I have wedding rings on...WTF??" I think the issue was that they thought we were younger than we actually are. That cracks me up in itself because my DH and I are always happy, having a good time, so obviously we're happy in our current situation regardless of age. Oh well, our happiness in the here and now is what matters!

Jerayskin · July 2009

They judge me when they don't see a ring on my finger... and I get comments like, "so are you happy about this?" It really annoys me.?

They also judge me bc my bf and I are still in school, (he graduates in Dec and I have about a year left) would you rather me not have a college education?

Unless you are one of the 2% of the population that is waiting to have sex until you are married, you are no different than I am. ?

whit022109 · July 2009

emmared1986:
Your DH must have been one sexy mofo, LOL

haha, he was! Wink and ive found him even more so as of lately...thanks, hormones!

emmared1986 · July 2009

whit022109:

emmared1986:
Your DH must have been one sexy mofo, LOL

haha, he was! and ive found him even more so as of lately...thanks, hormones!

Right there with ya. I've always been attracted to mine, but lately its like jump on him/have to sniff his delicious scent. I dont know whats gotten into me, but he sure isnt complaining

whit022109 · July 2009

emmared1986:
whit022109:

emmared1986:
Your DH must have been one sexy mofo, LOL

haha, he was! and ive found him even more so as of lately...thanks, hormones!

Right there with ya. I've always been attracted to mine, but lately its like jump on him/have to sniff his delicious scent. I dont know whats gotten into me, but he sure isnt complaining

yesss, DH is weirded out because we'll be cuddling on the couch to a movie and ill try to discreetly sniff his armpits but he always catches me. LOL it sounds disgusting but he never has B.O., and they always smell good!

emmared1986 · July 2009

whit022109:
emmared1986:
whit022109:

emmared1986:
Your DH must have been one sexy mofo, LOL

haha, he was! and ive found him even more so as of lately...thanks, hormones!

Right there with ya. I've always been attracted to mine, but lately its like jump on him/have to sniff his delicious scent. I dont know whats gotten into me, but he sure isnt complaining

yesss, DH is weirded out because we'll be cuddling on the couch to a movie and ill try to discreetly sniff his armpits but he always catches me. LOL it sounds disgusting but he never has B.O., and they always smell good!

At least you are open about your creepy sniffing. After Dh leaves for work, I'll sneak into the shower and smell his bodywash scent, or sometimes I'll sit in his closet and just inhale. Maybe its my abnormal way of showing love

whit022109 · July 2009

emmared1986:
whit022109:
emmared1986:
whit022109:

emmared1986:
Your DH must have been one sexy mofo, LOL
haha, he was! and ive found him even more so as of lately...thanks, hormones!
Right there with ya. I've always been attracted to mine, but lately its like jump on him/have to sniff his delicious scent. I dont know whats gotten into me, but he sure isnt complaining
yesss, DH is weirded out because we'll be cuddling on the couch to a movie and ill try to discreetly sniff his armpits but he always catches me. LOL it sounds disgusting but he never has B.O., and they always smell good!
At least you are open about your creepy sniffing. After Dh leaves for work, I'll sneak into the shower and smell his bodywash scent, or sometimes I'll sit in his closet and just inhale. Maybe its my abnormal way of showing love

hahahaha. little does he know i have sniffed many a shirt in the dirty clothes while sorting laundry!!! and not to make sure it was dirty!

MamaS111 · July 2009

Jerayskin: I have gotten the same reaction!! My fiance will graduate in December and I have one more year left!!! I think its crazy that people think its crazy!! I totally would rather have a college degree than say screw it!!! Good job to us for finishing our education!!! Party!!!

mommys.gummy.bear · July 2009

oh, the comments i hear from ppl about us not being married now that i'm knocked up. its always something along the lines of: "you've been together 12 years and now you're having his baby.. when's he going to put a ring on your finger?" :-/

KimberlyJean · July 2009

I took my wedding/engagement rings off because I am super paranoid of my fingers swelling up and having to cut them off (the rings not my fingers). Slightly irrational - but better than the alternative if it happens. So I get looks from people when I am walking around looking all unmarried. Not that it should matter either way - it's no ones business but my own.

Also, we've had some not so nice comments about the fact that we were only married 3 1/2 months or so before we got pregnant. "So this is a whoops right?" Sure it happened fast, but this baby was definitely planned. I have endo and we were told it could take a really long time to get pregnant and we just happened to be really lucky when we first started trying.

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