I was thinking on getting it before Henry is born, but do I really need it? Aren't you supposed to EBF for the first month or 2 anyway?
The only thing I'm worried about is that my mom will be in town right after he is born and will want to feed him (which I totally understand). One of my friends is BFing, but her LO also takes bottles.
Would it be best to get the pump so my mom and DH can feed Henry sometimes or wait until I know BFing is going to work? I have read that they can just give him a bottle with a little water in it so they can feed him, but I'm not sure if that's true.
Sorry if this is just a jumbled mess of my thoughts.
Re: When will you buy your pump (of you're BFing)
i was told to have it beforehand "just in case." you never know where the path will elad and you may need to be pumping on day 2.
i just ordered mine the other day thanks for a good sale. i doubt i will take it out of the box, though, until i need it after he's born.
I bought my pump already because I had a coupon, but I haven't opened it just in case I want to take it back.
Both my mom and MIL will be here after he's born (at different times) and I won't be pumping just because they may want to feed him. ?I would like to EBF for at least a couple of months, and I'm not going to screw that up just because someone else wants to feed him. ?I'm sure they'll understand, and if they don't, too bad.?
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For what it's worth, I purchased mine last week, and am keeping the receipt, "just in case".
I just wanted to have it on hand in case something bad happened, and the baby was not able to breastfeed right away.
I've heard if you want to EBF you should avoid bottles unless absolutely necessary.
That said, I am goign to EBF, but I still got a pump because I know there will be times when I'll need to do it. I bought mine already, but only because I found the one I wanted on sale. Otherwise I probably would have wait until about the 2nd month.
I took my BF class last night they recommended waiting a month to introduce the bottle, and if you wanted to pump before that to only do it at feeding times (after LO eats)
I recieved my pump as a gift but it's staying int he box untill I need it,
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Definitely do not give him water.?
We are going to wait until we see whether or not BFing will even work for us before buying a pump.
You can also rent hospital-grade pumps from your hospital or LC, and sometimes local specialty stores rent them by the month as well. So if you aren't sure whether or not you will need one for an extended period of time, it might be better to rent one. ?
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I ordered mine last week. I want to have it just in case Luke has problems latching on, so I can start pumping right away.
Don't let your mom or DH give him water - babies get all the liquid they need from milk. Water can fill them up so they don't want their milk, and lead to FTT.
Thanks for the advice. I don't remember where I read it was ok, but obviously I would've asked first.
Thanks for your thoughts ladies. I think I will get one and keep it in the box just in case Henry won't latch on.
Do not do this! Its way to soon and your baby needs to be putting the demand on your breasts and everytime you use a bottle your body isn't getting the signals to make more milk. Pumps don't always "trigger" the breasts to make more liek the baby can - its a different sucking action. Your milk might not even be in by the time your mom is there and its silly to be pumping just the colostrum unless there is a medical need.
Please check out the BFing board and kellymom.com for your BFing info. Do not let your family or friends try to convince that something is "ok" to do without educating yourself first!
Just wanted to make sure you had the info - I think it is a fairly common misconception that babies need water. We have a lot of parents ask about this at work.
And I agree with keeping it in the box. I want to at least have it, but not open it until I need to. I don't know what kind of pump you are wanting, but I found a really good deal from a home medical equipment website - got my Pump In Style for $213 with free shipping (site recommended by a friend). I'd be happy to share the link if anyone wants it.
Before baby is born, but not out of the box until we see how this all works out.
I want my baby to get the health benefits of breast milk, but I'm not planning on BFing for more than three months and I definately want his Daddy to share in feeding him.
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I already bought mine. I will be pumping at work, so I want to get a solid routine before I go back. Also, I opened mine and read the instructions and everything had to be boiled and such, so I'm glad I did...I really don't think I'll have time to be boiling things properly after baby comes!
As far as EBF for 1-2 mos! I was told as long as everything was going good and baby was latching on and such, you could start bottle feedings (we will be doing this mainly at night, as my hubby really wants to help out). The reasoning I was told was as long as baby was well adjusted to your breast, there wouldn't be any nipple confusion with bottles or pacifiers or whatever.
Also, just because some other random people feel compelled to feed your baby doesn't mean you have to pump or feed it water! There are plenty of things your mom and others can do, like changing the baby and bringing baby to you awake for feedings. Making your family meals in the beginning, as you won't have time for yourself when you're establishing breastfeeding. This is YOUR child and YOU need time early on with him/her, not anyone else... Sorry, but these are just my thoughts...
We bought ours prior to LO being born, thank goodness! My milk came in on Day 2, LO was strictly BFed until I went back to work when she was 3months. But I pumped after every feeding and had a supply built up for when she had to go to daycare and for those late nights that DH got to stay up with her. It was very convenient to be able to pump as soon as my milk was in and I was never uncomfortable or over engorged!
I've been told my my doctor and lactation specialist to breast feed only for the first two months. If you don't, it can cause nipple confussion. He/she might not want to go back to the boob after the bottle. After baby has got the feeding thing down pat, then it's okay to alternate between breast and bottle.
I'm going to rent a pump from the hospital for a month before I buy. This way I'm not dropping $280 for something that I might not even use. At least if we rent first, we can make sure that pumping is going to work for me. You might check with your hopsital to see if they rent them.
Couldn't have said it better myself!!!!