I was curious if anyone has any experience with egg donation..good or bad. It is something I am recently considering. I have two children of my own. I realize i am very blessed. My best friend and her dh have been trying for 10yrs(on and off) to get pg- she has stopped after carrying her son to 5months and losing him. It has been a very hard process for them. I have offered to carry a baby for her bc she is SO deserving of being a mother..however she is really not ready to have a child after her loss at this point. But it has gotten me to thinking about egg donation. I have found bits and pieces of info online, but would love to know if anyone has done it- how they felt after- to be honest im torn on it. i want to help someone soo badly that like my friend is so deserving but having two children of my own the emotional side can get a little caught up in it. please let me know your experiences.?
This might be a bit of a stretch, but try over on the adoption board. There was a recent post about embryo adoption which might help point you in the right direction for more resources.
I'm also curious on people's experience with this or surrogacy. I'd love to be a surrogate someday, but I don't think I could be the biological mother.
I've been looking in to being a gestational surrogate and looking online, there are a ton of agencies looking for egg donations. I think it's a great thing to do!
The egg donation might be a good way to 'test the waters' on how you really feel before committing to surrogacy for your friend. I say go for it.My best friend donated her eggs to pay off her cc debt but she's also of a scientific mind-set (she's in the medical field) that the eggs aren't really a child of her and are cell matter.
Egg donation is a beautiful thing. However, you need to realize exactly what you are getting in to first. Below is a link for an article you should read.
Re: egg donation..
This might be a bit of a stretch, but try over on the adoption board. There was a recent post about embryo adoption which might help point you in the right direction for more resources.
EmileMadison (she just posted about this on T-TTC is doing this). Quite a few posters over there as well as SAIF are the recipents on egg donors.
I think it's an amazing gift that you might be willing to help someone have a family.
You are a very good friend.
I'm also curious on people's experience with this or surrogacy. I'd love to be a surrogate someday, but I don't think I could be the biological mother.
Egg donation is a beautiful thing. However, you need to realize exactly what you are getting in to first. Below is a link for an article you should read.
Stanford Egg Donation Article