Had my first internal yesterday...yeeeoowwch! I felt like such a whiner but man it hurt...2 cm dilated...then he offered to strip my membranes...I've been very desperate all week so I accepted after the pain of the internal...I guess if nothing becomes of it by tomorrow night I will regret doing it because it hurt so bad I cried...hopefully this isn't an embarrassing display of my pain tolerance (or lack there of)
Re: first internal
The doctor sticks his/her hand way up there. Mine didn't hurt too bad, but I have a very petite female doctor. No membrane stripping for me though.
The dr is actually pushing on your cervix and that is what hurts. I will say that I've had lots of internals during this pg because of a risk of PTL and some have hurt worse than others. Some of it depends on how sensitive your cervix is and some of it depends on the dr's technique.
FWIW-sex can hurt too if he hits your cervix. That's why you read all the posts suggesting to take it slow and easy to figure out what's comfortable and what hurts.
I agree, mine hurt also... I had one in the hospital on monday and i thought her hand was going to come out my mouth.. LOL!!..
and i have a doctor appiontment tomorrow so i get another one... Yippee!!