I keep second quessing whre I put baby Raleigh to sleep at night and for naps. I feel like a bad mom and that I am starting bad sleep habits. I posted before she really is not a fan of her crib. We have been letting her nap in her swing and co-sleep in the nap nanny at night. I guess I am wondering where the other babies around the same age as Raleigh are sleeping at night and napping during the day.
Re: Where does your newborn sleep?
Maya napped wherever she fell asleep at that point. She slept for long stretches in the swing but also did well in the bouncer.
She always slept in the PNP at night. We never co-slept (DH and I are both heavy sleepers). We transitioned Maya to the crib at 6 weeks. She never had a problem!
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my guys mostly napped in boppys on the couch or the pnp in the living room where i was
for bed they were in our room until 6 months, both in the pnp next to the bed, or co-sleeping with me
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DD sleeps in a pack and play at night next to our bed. But during the day, she hates the p-n-p. She mostly naps in the swing (one of the cradle swings...I'd probably nap there too if they made them for adults!).
My plan is to start trying to get her to nap in the crib in the next few weeks.
You can't start ANY habits right now - she is way too little. Let her sleep wherever she is able to - this world is BRAND NEW to her - just go with whatever works and soothes her and lets her know this is safe, cozy place for her to be. You are not a bad mommy! You are taking care of her and helping her to feel secure in this world. Many babies nap in swings for several months before making the transition to napping in a crib. Same with night time sleep - Jack was in a cosleeper in my room, and sometimes in bed with us, for 6 months before making the move to his crib.
"When it comes to sleeping, whatever your baby does is normal. If one thing has damaged parents enjoyment of their babies, it's rigid expectations about how and when the baby should sleep." ~ James McKenna, Ph.D., Mother Baby Behavioral Sleep Center, University of Notre Dame
thank you all for responding. it really helped to reassure me that we are not doing the wrong thing(s) over here in respect to sleep locations!