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Mysterious_wife
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Apparently I am disrespectful.
Mysterious_wife
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Obviously I'm new to posting, but I what I said wasn't meant with a bit of meanness in it at all. I don't appreciate being called out publicly. I apologize if it offended you/poster as that really wasn't the intent. I'll be more careful with the way I say things, no problem. Just please the next time you feel something I've said was inappropriate, give me a little bit of respect and send it via PM.
My reply....
Oh honey that was respectful. You should have shown the OP some respect. You really, really need to lurk. You have no idea how this place works.
Me thinks she will not make it here.
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Re: Apparently I am disrespectful.
:grabs wooden spoon and slaps MW on the asss:
That'll teach you
Come on, MW, you know we are smart enough to figure that part out!!
There you guys go making me all hawt again! I've been disrespectful too...
I hope a lesson was learned on what not to say to someone who is having Trouble TTC.
for the lurkers and TTC newbs: having trouble TTC = Actively TTC for more than a year. (it sucks that needs to be reiterated over and over)
I don't think she MEANT it to be mean, I think when people say stuff like that they don't THINK about it enough to realize what they are saying. It's a snap reaction to repeat what they've heard other people say (again, without thinking) because they aren't empathetic enough to recognize how effed up it is.
:turns and slaps lecooke on the asss:
I went back and added this...
You have really hit a nerve. You want me to show you respect and send you a PM. You posted the most disrespectful thing ever to a regular with IF. You do not get respect out of the blue, you earn it. You posted in the eyes of everyone, you get a reply in the eyes of everyone. You can either listen to me and lurk or you can make your life a living hell and keep posting and get flamed way worse than you can imagine.
aaaaaaaaaaaaaand she's gone
I don't think she did either, it was just a case of not thinking before typing. ?I noticed she said she'd try to word it more carefully next time or something, but my thought was that she shouldn't ever say it again. ?Ever.?
She'll be back. They always come back.
Whew! Thanks, Wee. I really enjoyed that!