2nd Trimester

What are you caling the GrandParents

This is the first grandchild for ILs and the names they are throwing out make me want to scream.  For example, for my FIL "Daddy Danny" uh NO there is only one daddy and that is my DH. MILs name is not great either.  So we plan on having dinner with them tonight and I am sure the name issue will come up.  I need ideas and fast!  Thank you!!

Re: What are you caling the GrandParents

  • We are going with Grandma and Grandpa.  The kids might come up with their own variations as they get older and that's fine.  I see nothing wrong with the traditional for the time being. 
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  • My mum- Gramma

    Step-dad- Poppop

    My dad- Grandpa

    His mum- Gram

    His dad- Pap

  • Well, we have kind of a confusing situation-my dad is polish, my MIL is polish, my FIL is not, My mom is not, so we might do some polish (Bobci grandmother for MIL and Giadic (Dziadziu) Grandfather for my dad..)

    Or...we might just see what baby ends up saying! No one has said anything! Thank goodness! And, luckily, my parents and Inlaws are not the type that are like "We are too young to be grandparents!"

  • My parents are Gram & Granddaddy -- it's what they already are to my nephew.

     

    MIL suggested "Mom-Mom" for herself, which I nixed immediately.  I think she'll be "Grandma."

    FIL will probably be "Grandpa."

  • My 2 nieces already call my parents Meema & Papa, so our DD will probably know them as that, but DD is the first on my IL's side, and they are trying to make up names too. Last I heard they were throwing around Poppy and....Gja-Gja...Confused
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  • We really haven't discussed serious names but I jokingly told my mother that she will be called Granny Lu (she is having issues with becoming a grandmother-she doesn't think she is old enough)

    MIL once referred to FIL as Grampy, but I think she just picked that one out for him.  I can garranty he won't want to be called that.

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  • My Mom = Mammy

    My Dad = Pappy

    DH's Mom= Grammy

    DH's Dad= Papi (yes like ortiz)

  • "Daddy Danny"?!?!?  Seriously?  It isn't his kid, wth would the grandchild call him daddy anything???  That's disturbing, I'm sorry.  My parents are Mom-Mom and Pop-Pop, and my IL's are Grandma and Pop-Pop.
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  • i had this issue with my mom-i told her our child would call her whatever the child figured out.   it happens to be grammi.   my dad was grandpa but she can't prounounce it so it comes out "bapa" which is cute.  dh's parents didn't care and they are grandma and grandpa.   for some reason my mom didn't want to be "grandma" even though she was on my for years about having a grandchild.     so i would say "you can ask to be called this or that, but eventually our child will decide what you get called."

  • My mom and dad will just be grandma and grandpa. I think my MIL wants to be called mummum or something like that. Derrick calls his grandma (MIL's mom) that so I think that's what my MIL wants to be called. I have no idea if there's something that my FIL wants to be called.
  • It's funny because we've been having these discussions too.  My husband's mom and dad will be Grandma and Grandpa since that's what they already go by for our niece and nephew.  This is the first grandbaby for my parents though and they are very excited.  My dad is German so I think he's leaning towards Opah.  My mom does not want to be called grandma, so she has been trying out different options.  So far I think she likes Gigi the best.  We shall see....
  • Grandma and Grandpa on both sides.

  • my parents - Grandma and Poppy

    DH's parents - Grams and PawPaw

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  • MIL is first time grandparent and has requested to be called Mimi, just like her kids called her mother.

    My parents are used to being Nana and Popa, but they are now divorced and mom is remarried.  My neice has decided to call him "Happy John", instead of the suggested "Pappy John".  Maybe w/ this one, we can correct the situation so the poor guy can stop wondering why she calls him that.

  • It's turned out to be Grandma and Grandpa... on both sides.  We tried letting each of our parents decide what they wanted to be called and no one came up with anything... so this is how it ended up.
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  • It's kind of funny because DH and I had this conversation before DS was born.  DS kind of came up with his own names.  My dad (the only Grandfather) is Papa and the Grandmothers are Geega.  He couldn't say Grandma, so Geega kind of came out and it just stuck.  To this day (he's 5 now) they are still Geega.  My MIL loves that it's different and she doesn't ever want to be called anything else.  Although I'm sure eventually he will grow out of it.
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    For my parents, who are already grandparents since my brother has two little boys, we call them Noni (non-eeeee) and Nono (non-and an oooo sound like in rooster). It is what we called my grandparents, who are Italian. Nona is another popular one in the family.

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    My husband's parents want to just be called Grandma and Grandpa... or Gram and Pap if we need an easier version.?

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  • my mil and fil have odd names they want to be called, and i can't ever remember them...

    so unfortunately (?) i will refer probably to all grandparents as grandma and grandpa... i had two "grandmas" and two "grandpas" growing up... and I never got confused, so i don't expect any less from our son.  if he wants to call them something else, that is completely fine.  but i'm not going to stress out about remembering the silly names they keep coming up for themselves....

  • We'll just be using Grandma and Grandpa for both sides. It worked for my sister's two kids. When they're with my parents, and are referring to my BIL's mother, they just specify Grandma Dorothy. My parents are Grandma Jen and Grandpa Frank when they're around their other grandma.
  • I already have nephews and they call my mom-Nana and my dad-Papaw and stepdad-Papa.

    It will be first for MIL and she wants to be called Nana Pat.

  • working on this too, but my sister's parents go by

    Grandpa - "Chickie", sounds crazy, but apparently it was a family Pittsburgh thing and "Madr-ay" They wanted fun names.  And Chickie has stuck like gold - very cute actually. 

    My parents are Grandmum and Pop Pop

    DIL's: Nana & Grandpa

    Tell them to come up with a fun name that reflects them.  My own Grandma's last name was Trymbiski, but I grew up thinking she was Grandma Tea (because she'd yell to put hte kettle on whenever we showed up - and gallons of tea she drank).

    Definitely no to the "Daddy Danny" weird.

  • My parents will be Grandma and Grandpa, just like both sets of my grandparents.

    We're not sure about the in-laws, but I believe it will be Nanny and Papa.  That's what my husband called both of his sets of grandparents.  I'm not certain, but this may be a "southern thing" ... they're from VA.  (I'm an ignorant girl from WI and had never heard of either).  The only exception may be my MIL ... her sister is called Nona by her grandkids since her mother is called Nanny.

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  • My mom and step-dad are MiMi and Pop. Not sure what my Dad will be. In-laws are both recently deceased, but were GiGi and Pop.
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  • My parents are Nonni and Pop to my nephew.

    DH's parents are Grandma and Poppa to their other two grandkids.

  • we're just going with grandma and grandpa and will refer as grandma/grandpa firstname when necessary, especially since there will be 4 "grandpas" with divorce/remarry on both sides!  Of course if the LO decides something different, we'll probably roll with it.
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  • Our names have long since been established.

    Granddad & Mimi

    Gran & Bobby

    Grandma & Grandpa (mine) 

  • My mom - grandma

    My dad - grandpa

    DH's mom - abuela

    DH's dad - abuelo

  • We told our parents to decide, MIL wanted to be called "Mia" bc that is what she wishes her name had been. We said no way. My dad's parents were Polish (Babci and Dziadziu) and my mom's were French (phanetically Meh-may and Peh-pay) so they have no idea.
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    Grandma and Grandpa.  My in-laws are divorced and I never though much on what we would have DD call my step FIL since my DH did not grow up with him.  Probably just Grandpa Tom.  My niece calls my FIL "Pizza Guy" since he's rarely seen by the family and used to own a pizza restaurant.  Everyone else calls him "Chico".  He'll probably insist on that for our DD as well. Whatev.  BTW, anyone else's DD going to have a raging hippy as a grandfather?  

    Great-grandparents, which are my maternal and paternal grandmothers, get their first names lumped in, as in "Grandma Julie". 

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  • my parents are nana and papa.  MIL is grandma.  FIL is that jerk we never talk to.  Well, nto really, we don't talk about him or call him anything in front of the kids.  They have no memory of him and havent' seen him in nearly a year.
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  • So far we've got my mom- Nawna and FI's dad- Pappy. We still have to come up with names for my step-dad, dad, step-mom, and FI's mom. That should be fun lol!
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  • Our situation is complicated. Both my parents and DH's parents are divorced. And of course, all 4 are remarried. So, our DD will have eight grandparents (and she is the 1st grandchild for all 8). On top of that, there are also 7 great-grandparents.?

    This is what we have so far:

    Great-grandparents (my side)- Mima & Papa, Mimi & Papop

    Great-grandparents (DH's side)- Gran & Grandpa, Grandma

    My Mom & Step-dad- Grammy & ?

    My Dad & Step-mom- Papa Steve & Gigi

    DH's Mom & Step-dad- Nana & ?

    DH's Dad & Step-mom- ? & ??

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  • we'll prob. do what my sister's and i did w/ our grandparents and call them by their first names like we had Grandma Judy and Grandpa George....except my mom's name is Theresa so I'm sure she'll be Grandma T lol
  • My parents will be Oma and PaPa. His are already (5 grandkids before ours) Grandma and Grampa.
  • My parents-MeMe and Pappy

    My MIL-not sure yet....she wants to be called Mawmaw but thats what our grandparents are called "mawmaw and pawpaw" (all of them)

    My FIL and step MIL-Gran and Pop

     I also like Lolli and Pop

    My aunt's grand children call her "Honey"

  • Prior children beforeus have already chosen, but we will be using mammy and g-daddy (i like this one it seems cool...) and also granny and papa :)

     

     

  • DH's parents are Grandma and Grandpa- my parents are Nana and Nampers.  My mom decided that Nana sounded the best for her and DH made up Nampers for my dad- as a joke then it stuck.  We love that it is something different and really- who else in this world has a Nampers?  =)
  • My parents- Momo and Papa

    In Laws- Grandma and Grandpa


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  • Both of our parents are already grandparents so this was a non discussion for us. My husband's parents are Gramma & Grampa. My Dad is Gran-Pap (just like my Gran-Pap, who recently passed away) and my step mom is Gramma Vana.

  • Well Grandpa for my Dad and either Grandma or Nana for my mom. DH is Hispanic so I am sure they will want to be called Abuela and Abuelo
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