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Fing rude stranger at mall

I can not believe some people. I was standing in line at the mall to get coffee (with milk and Splenda, since I've been so good about sticking to my diet and have lost 7 lbs), and this woman comes up and starts telling me how cute DS is, how she loves that he has my red hair, etc. She then looks at my stomach and says "So, are we expecting again or is that just from having him?"

WTF?!?! I almost cried. 

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  • WTF?? I would have hit her.
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  • That is ridiculously rude. ?That woman deserves a good tongue-lashing. ?
  • B*tch!!!!! i am sorry :( 
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  • Shocking.  Wow. There have been times that people post about somethign they found rude, and I'm like "Eh- whatever. Being overly sensitive".  But that?  WOW.  That's truly rude and then some.
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  • People are so stupid. What did you say!!!!!

    ?You should have just said 'that was really effing rude".?

  • And your baby is the cutest!
  •   Some people really need idiot filters.  

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  • "Are you always this rude or is it just because you're ugly?"

     

    lol... I'm so sorry. I know people have wanted to ask me that (I have diastasis recti muscle issues, throw on an empire waist and I'm 26 weeks..) so I've always had that on hand. Borrow it ;-)

     

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  • Thanks, ladies. I was too stunned to come up with a snappy response. I just said that it was from having DS and she was like "Oh yes, the womb gets all stretched out." Grrrrrrr . . . .
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  • imageDavezWife:

    "Are you always this rude or is it just because you're ugly?"


     

    Smile   Love it!

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  • I'm so sorry, that's awful! Sometimes I wonder about people!
  • imageDavezWife:

    "Are you always this rude or is it just because you're ugly?"

     

    lol... I'm so sorry. I know people have wanted to ask me that (I have diastasis recti muscle issues, throw on an empire waist and I'm 26 weeks..) so I've always had that on hand. Borrow it ;-)

     

    lol - love this :)

    and yeah i have diastasis too and so far since giving birth i have had 3 people ask me if i'm expecting.  it's awesome.  people are heinous.

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  • Woah. What a stupid beotch!
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  • unREAL!!  i'm so sorry!!!
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  • WOW...that is horrible
  • Oh my goodness! How did you not punch her in the face?!
  • I was just about to post the SAME thing that happened to me at work yesterday.  I'm still pi$$ed off. 
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  • God, people are such IDIOTS! :(

     

  • Oh my goodness...I wish her mouth would stop working like her brain obviously has.
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  • I really think that comments like that are completely justifiable reasons to punch someone. 
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    Good grief!  I think I am going to start socking away come backs to statements like this since it sounds like idiots abound.  I don't know if I'd have the cojones to use Davez' line, but I might look someone straight in the eye and kindly say "Wow... what an incredibly insensitive question..." and just let them twist in the wind.

     

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  • what a b!tch...

  • ***!!  I would have said "Yes, this is from him.  So, when are you due?"  ha ha ha. 
  • how rude!!!!
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