DH is in a wedding on the 4th that he has to travel 8 hours to be in. ?He obviously has to pay for his tux and hotel and other travel arrangements for the 3 nights he will be gone. ?What would you give for a gift, money or otherwise?
usually the cost of the plate (or that's how it was in NY anyway). So maybe $200 for two people. $150 if he's going by himself. The other costs you are incurring are not relevant, IMO.
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If he's in the wedding, he's close enough to them to do something decent. Of course "decent" means different things to different people. $100 ish. I'd do an actual gift instead of $.
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