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cue the tears....

JenyMJenyM member
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My mom just called me at work to tell me about the impromptu family BBQ yesterday. I'm so glad I didn't go. Well my cousin called her mom to tell her that she just got a BFP. Well, her mom blabbed the news to everyone there.

I am now THE LAST ONE in my fam.

I can't help it but I'm crying. WTF is wrong with me. I really fighting to not cry but just can't help it. i need to pull myself together.

 

BFP#1 missed m/c-d&c 10/27/08, BFP#2 BO-natural m/c 5/15/09, BFP#3 8/12/09-DS born 4/2010, BFP#4=TWINS-missed m/c&d/c 6/15/11, BFP#4 11/22/11- please stay with me
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  • mrsfarmer0711mrsfarmer0711
    That sucks... I'm glad you didn't go, and I'm so sorry you're the last one. ((SUPER GIANT HUGS)).
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  • JacquiemarkJacquiemark

    (((BIG HUGS)))

    That stinks, but think of it as... You saved the Best for last.

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  • nemattoxnemattox

    Aww, that sounds terrible!  Like PP said, I am really glad that you didn't find that news out at the BBQ itself.  I hope your day gets better.

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  • 4thofJulyWedding4thofJulyWedding member
    I'm sorry {{{BIG HUGS}}}
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  • candlcrazeecandlcrazee
    imageJacquiemark:

    (((BIG HUGS)))

    That stinks, but think of it as... You saved the Best for last.

    oooh..I like this a lot!!! Smile Really good way to think about it!
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  • Addicted2thenotAddicted2thenot member
    I am sorry, glad you were not at the BBQ
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  • Mrs0815Mrs0815

    oh no!  Don't be sad.

    1. your baby will be cuter

    2. her baby will be less liked by your mom

    3. you will get your bfp in no time and find a much better way to announce than a premature bbq shout out

    4. Did I mention your baby will be cuter?

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  • PeetiePiePeetiePie
    imageJacquiemark:

    (((BIG HUGS)))

    That stinks, but think of it as... You saved the Best for last.

    This is what I was thinking Jeny!

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  • jshay778jshay778
    ((hugs)) I am sorry
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  • Blessed1010Blessed1010 member
    imageMrs0815:

    4. Did I mention your baby will be cuter?

    I agree, the best is being saved for last.  Yes, your baby will be cuter!

    Thank you TTCAL and IF board. "Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another: What! You too? I thought I was the only one." C.S. Lewis

    Miscarried December of 2008, Ectopic Pregnancy November of 2009

    IVF #1 = BFN | IVF #2 = BFP: 9dp5dt (399), 14dp5dt (2489)

    Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus" Philippians 4:6,7
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  • BeckyS1211BeckyS1211

    I am so sorry Jen.  Big hugs to you girl...

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  • myafoomyafoo member

    You know sumthin?  The girls are right.  You WILL have the cutest little baby and you WILL be the best!  So glad you missed out on the BBQ.  And I'm sorry you feel like crud.  you can cry on our shoulders anytime!

     

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  • cedge05cedge05 member
    imageJacquiemark:

    (((BIG HUGS)))

    That stinks, but think of it as... You saved the Best for last.

    I agree!  

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  • megjr8megjr8 member
    You'll be able shine like a big bright star all by yourself & get all the attention when you're pregnant!!!!
    In memory of precious Julia, sweet baby James, and now Timmy who fought so hard.


    Natural miscarriage - April 2009 ~ We love you, 'Blueberry'
    Lydia, born July 12, 2010
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  • mindyschallermindyschaller member
    :: hugs:: I know exactly how you feel. I'm sorry.
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  • wannabmommywannabmommy
    ::hugs::
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