I know this is really stupid, but I am so indecisive and I NEED to make an appointment for next week. I have been battling with dying (highlighting) it/leaving it... and getting some sort of bangs. I refuse to cut length off because I did that when I was pregnant and hated myself for it.
Here is a picture of me with my hair highlighted and with some crazy bangs I did myself. I am the one with the bangs, lol

Here are some more recent pictures, as in from like Feb/Mar (I don't like being in pictures). My hair is darker and my bangs are non existant. AND my hair is unbareable now that I had a baby, it won't do anything!
I know these pictures are not extremely helpful but I am thinking about highlighting it to get it lighter and getting some form of bangs, even if I do more side swept. Will I be making a HUGE mistake!?!?!?! My life depends on your answer.
Re: POLL: What should I do with my hair.
I agree. Some nice long, soft layers to thin out the hair a bit. And side swept bangs. You could even do a few extra layers around the face.
I wouldn't do bangs, they get in the way and are hard to manage.
Your hair looks great now - I know we all get bored with our hair. Maybe just get a trim and some highlights.
honestly, the bangs make you look like you're 12 years old. I like it now but maybe some more layers? There's not too much you can do to long hair without layering it.
GL!
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