so distraught and upset

aubie96 · June 2009

I didn't get the job here at my company. I feel like a failure or that my manager set me up for failure. I'm so upset and I am so miserable in this job now that it CAN NOT be good for me.

There's so many what if's/I wants in my life right now and at 34, I'm extremely happy with DH, just thought we'd be further along with things we want for us.

oh well, life goes on and I might have to get drunk tonight (which is NOT AT ALL like me)

ugh.

sorry, vent over.

kc0721 · June 2009

(((hugs))) I'm sorry that you didn't get the job. I'm sending a VERY STRONG drink your way, Drinks

tippykins · June 2009

((hugs)) i'm so sorry. plz don't feel like a failure - you are not!! i know it sucks, but i know that everything happens for a reason. there is a plan for you, just don't give up. i know exactly how you feel though. i was miserable my previous job. i was so stressed every day. i applied and applied for jobs for yrs, but got passed over SO many times. then last yr, i had an interview at the place i'm at now, and was selected, and i'm so happy where i am. so don't get down on yourself, everything will work out!! unfortunately God's plan doesn't always match up with our timeline

((hugs))

aubie96 · June 2009

tippykins:
((hugs)) i'm so sorry. plz don't feel like a failure - you are not!! i know it sucks, but i know that everything happens for a reason. there is a plan for you, just don't give up. i know exactly how you feel though. i was miserable my previous job. i was so stressed every day. i applied and applied for jobs for yrs, but got passed over SO many times. then last yr, i had an interview at the place i'm at now, and was selected, and i'm so happy where i am. so don't get down on yourself, everything will work out!! unfortunately God's plan doesn't always match up with our timeline ((hugs))

you are SO right Tiff, it's just hard to remember that sometimes. I just have to have faith and remember - in God's time, not my own.

I'm just disappointed and don't feel I'm where I'm supposed to be.

Thanks girls!!!!

soon2Bmrs.AGEE · June 2009

I replied on GP but I just wanted to send you HUGS again. It really sucks! There is another plan for you I promise!

jennre · June 2009

I am so sorry. I know how frustrating it can be. Keep your chin up and keep yours eyes open. I know it sucks to hear people say this, but things will get better. Just try not to let this get to you. Sending hugs and WINE your way!!!!

tippykins · June 2009

aubie96:

you are SO right Tiff, it's just hard to remember that sometimes. I just have to have faith and remember - in God's time, not my own.

I'm just disappointed and don't feel I'm where I'm supposed to be.

Thanks girls!!!!

you have every right to feel disappointed. just know that you are so far from a failure! you are a very intelligent, amazing, beautiful person! so don't let this setback hold you back. you know what they say, "good things come to those who wait"

sdkrlm · June 2009

oh Katie, I'm so sorry. I know you are miserable where you are at. Keep thinking good thoughts. Something will come up eventually.

BIG, no HUGE, hugs to you!

aubie96 · June 2009

tippykins:

aubie96:

you are SO right Tiff, it's just hard to remember that sometimes. I just have to have faith and remember - in God's time, not my own.

I'm just disappointed and don't feel I'm where I'm supposed to be.

Thanks girls!!!!

you have every right to feel disappointed. just know that you are so far from a failure! you are a very intelligent, amazing, beautiful person! so don't let this setback hold you back. you know what they say, "good things come to those who wait"

awwh, thanks Tiff. I needed to hear that.

Temp206787500007404 · June 2009

I'm so sorry!! I'm experiencing similar feelings about my gig. It really stinks.

ImMrsMoses · June 2009

I'm so sorry! I know how bad you wanted to make a change. I feel the same way about my job, and recently found out I was not chosen for a job that interviewed for a month or so ago.

Like you said, everything will happen in God's time....BUT, that doesn't mean it doesn't suck and it's not a big disappointment.

I hope things turn around soon!

southernbelle82 · June 2009

I'm so sorry you didn't get the job. ((hugs))

MissLMS · June 2009

I'm so sorry Katie. I know things willl look up for you! It's only a matter of time that something great comes along! ::hugs::

aubie96 · June 2009

thanks girls and I'm so sorry for venting so much. I've never been unhappy or felt stuck in a job before and its awful. God will provide soon enough and i just have to have faith.

uagirl · June 2009

I'm so sorry. Something wonderful must be coming your way. I think it's been raining on you for far too long.

star21gazer · June 2009

Katie I am so sorry you didn't get the job. I'll just repeat what everyone else has said in that God has something great in store for you and it will all work out like it's meant to be. Until then big hugs to you!

loyo03 · June 2009

I am SO sorry..hopefully something better will come your way when you least expect it to...and hopefully soon!

12106mrsmun · June 2009

I'm so sorry! I hope things start to look up for you real soon!

Soon2BMrsWiley · June 2009

I'm so sorry! Have you heard anything from AU?

PinkLadyRN1 · June 2009

I'm so sorry! I know you are so upset. You have been putting up with all the madness at that job for so long. Please....Please just don't let it get you down. I know that is easier said than done! There is a wonderful job out there for you.....it just stinks having to wait on it to come to you!! Just keep the faith...and know that God's plan has wonderful things in store for you my friend

Alisha530 · June 2009

I'm sorry to hear that. I just said a little prayer for you, I really hope things turn out for the best, I'm sure they will!

aubie96 · June 2009

Soon2BMrsWiley:
I'm so sorry! Have you heard anything from AU?

not yet, but I know it takes forever with them.

Plus, I don't know if I could take it anyways as the pay will be SIGNIFICANTLY lower and since I'm the bread winner, that would be hard. If we didn't have 2 mortgages, but ugh.

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