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The nerve of some people

autumn.jonesautumn.jones
in TTC After a Loss

Hey ladies......

So I have not posted on this board before, but I am so furious right now that I had to vent and thought that this might be a good place....

I just miscarried my baby last week at 11 weeks gestation.  Baby stopped growing at 8w3days.  So I am at work today and come to find out that one of my employees is pregnant.  I found out through our HR department as I am her supervisor and they had to tell me.  I of course congratulated the employee on her pregnancy and told her that just I lost my baby it wouldn't mean that I was not happy for her.  She then proceeded to tell me that she didn't mention the pregnancy to me because she does not want to be pregnant, was not planning the pregnancy, and was hoping that it would just GO AWAY!  WHAT A THING TO SAY!

**End of vent** thanks for listening!

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Re: The nerve of some people

  • xleslieraexxleslieraex member
    Wow, that's rough. Some people just don't know what to say or when to keep their mouths closed. Sorry to hear.
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  • WearingRedWearingRed member
    Indifferent I.... have no wordsIndifferent

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  • candlcrazeecandlcrazee
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    Wow, that's rough. Some people just don't know what to say or when to keep their mouths closed. Sorry to hear.
    This!
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  • Ssweets04Ssweets04 member

    Sorry for your loss ((hugs))

    Things like this makes me so sad.... people who don't appreciate what they have get what we are dieying to have. =(

    Started TTC in August 2007, 1st BFP March 2008, natural m/c April 11th, 2008. 2nd BFP 1/1/09, diagnosed with possible ectopic 1/16/09, got Methotrexate shot 1/18/09. On Bromocriptine to balance my high prolactin levels (thanks to tiny brain tumor) that messes with my body. Long cycles and unexplained infertility suck monkey balls! July 09- Clomid 50mg HCG shot TI prog. supps= negative. August 09- Clomid 50mg HCG shot IUI prog. supps=negative. September 09- Clomid 50mg HCG shot b2b IUI's prog. supps: negative. October 09- Clomid 100mg HCG b2b IUI's prog.supps: negative. November 09- cycle cancelled due to cyst.... IVF is next.... December 09- Beginning of IVF, Lupron, BCP's Jan-Feb 10- IVF retrieved 6 matured eggs, all fertilized, 2 transferred, 1 lost, 3 frozen= BFP! betas: 8dp5dt (13dpo)= 176, 11dp5dt (16dpo)= 728! October 2010: Boy/Girl twins born. Now... trying to get fit!
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  • eline0325eline0325
    OMG.  I can not believe that someone would say such a horrible thing.  I am sorry that she said that to you.  ::HUGS::
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  • sunsetlovesunsetlove member

    unbelieveable..i'm feeling red of anger as i'm typing this.. to say that.. when so many of us women are trying so hard to be pg and wanna be pg..and she's brushes it off like it's no big deal..

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers BFP 2# 7/5/09,EDD:3/26/10,MC:9/23/09. We Miss our Lucky Charm.
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  • JacquiemarkJacquiemark

    Is her foot still lodged in her mouth?

     I can't believe she would say that to you. Some people are just so ungrateful for what they have.

     

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  • redshoegirlredshoegirl member

    Zip it!

    I can think of things to say...but none of them are nice. Devil

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  • katie9136katie9136
    AMAZING... i think you need to take her to the SLAP post stat!
    Missed MC 1 - 11/21/2006 Missed MC 2 - 03/10/2008 BFP # 3 09/18/09 - Gabriel David born 05/11/2010 baby
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  • knelliknelli

    Sorry, but in my book she is an ungreatful little B!tch!!!

     

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  • autumn.jonesautumn.jones
    Thanks for the support ladies!  Glad to hear that I am not braving this storm alone because it is a nasty one! 
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  • PeetiePiePeetiePie

    Indifferent  Sounds like she should have gone with her first instinct and kept her effin' mouth shut.  Ugh. 

    Welcome to the board!

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