Having a bad IF day

JFa · June 2009

So I am officially 11dpo and have tested twice and got BFN's both times....I know it still might be a little early but I am sad today. My DH said he knew it wasn't going to work. I am just having a bad IF day. I have decided not to test anymore. If AF doesn't show up then I will test but I am done at this point. I have been having cramps for about 4-5 days now. I am sure that AF is getting ready to show her ugly face. I thought I had prepared myself for a BFN but I guess I was wrong. I am going to try and stay hopeful since it is still kinda early.........I guess I am just depressed today. Thanks for letting me vent.

jlcrane78 · June 2009

Are you and I linked or something? I'm a day behind you, but I am feeling like AF is on her ugly little way. I haven't been brave enough to POAS. If I make it to Sunday, then I will test. I can't take anymore disappointment. I thought I would be one of those easy Femara fixes because I am unexplained. Deep down, I'm starting to feel like the unexplained only means that they haven't found what they're looking for yet. Something isn't adding up, and I really wish we could figure out what that something is.

lnle · June 2009

((hugs))

stepgirl21 · June 2009

I'm sorry jfa.

I have had days like that too.

JFa · June 2009

jlcrane78:
Are you and I linked or something? I'm a day behind you, but I am feeling like AF is on her ugly little way. I haven't been brave enough to POAS. If I make it to Sunday, then I will test. I can't take anymore disappointment. I thought I would be one of those easy Femara fixes because I am unexplained. Deep down, I'm starting to feel like the unexplained only means that they haven't found what they're looking for yet. Something isn't adding up, and I really wish we could figure out what that something is.

We must be.....I knew there was someone on the same cycle as me. I would wait till Sunday too. I know I tested early so now I don't know for sure if it is just too early or I am really not pg. Either way I feel defeated. Are you getting cramps too? Let me know if you POAS. ((hugs))

Romeo&Denise · June 2009

*hugs* I'm sorry, hopefully it's not AF!

I know what you mean, each cycle I prepare myself for a BFN, thinking that it'll make me less dissapointed, but I guess I'm only fooling myself.

Spoil yourself today.

JFa · June 2009

Thank you guys for your kind words and hugs. It means a lot to me.

Echloe · June 2009

I'm sorry you are having a rough day. ?Hope you feel better tomorrow and that the cramping you are feeling is not actually a sign of AF.

hopeful34 · June 2009

Hey!!! It's not over until AF shows her ugly head or the beta says so. Try to keep your chin up and think good thoughts. I hope it's not a sign of AF. GL!! i hope this cycle is yours!

jlcrane78 · June 2009

hopeful34:
Hey!!! It's not over until AF shows her ugly head or the beta says so. Try to keep your chin up and think good thoughts.

I need to remember THIS!

igh0318 · June 2009

(((hugs)))

Carmela752 · June 2009

It could definitely still be early! Sending some BFP vibes your way.

lablori · June 2009

sorry you feel down today, I've got the same feeling too. I hope tomorrow is a brighter day! Sending good thoughts your way.

nikinikinine · June 2009

I'm sorry, I so know how you feel! I hope tomorrow is better for you!

nina&matt · June 2009

((Hugs))

I'm sorry hun. Let me know if I can do anything for ya.

NYC_CT · June 2009

Hugs hun. First - it's not over til its over, second - DPO 11 is still very early! This was your first round of Clomid right? I distinctly remember thinking that my first round was bound to work since now we had "help". My RE told us yesterday that Clomid just puts me on par with everyone else (i.e. ovulating normally) so taking between 5-8 rounds is totally normal. I know that is beyond frustrating to hear, but sadly, it's the truth! That being said, don't count yourself out, this could still be your month. Good luck to you!