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anyone else feel the same way about sex? (not having any)

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DH and I both have no desire....we do other things, but I am not on the mini pill (kinda seems like theres no point since its not very effective), we hate condoms, and are not at all willing to accept the consequences (i.e. another baby) that come from sex!  It kinda seems weird to me that we haven't yet, but at the same time neither of us feel deprived so its not that big of deal....
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  • britti<3britti<3
    We've had sex twice. I could have done without lol.
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  • littlewifeylittlewifey

    We have had sex a few times, and it was actually really great (once the initial pain went away:). However, we are not wanting to get pregnant either, and I'm not having my IUD inserted for another 2 weeks, so that has sort of killed the desire.?

    What is your plan for birth control (other than continuing to not have sex:)??

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  • AprilsiesAprilsies
    Nope - do not feel the same. I am a slutty horn dog and could not wait for my italian stallion (after I was cleared of course!) 
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    imagelittlewifey:

    What is your plan for birth control (other than continuing to not have sex:)? 

    undecided at this point.... most likely I will just go on the mini pill and be as routine-ish with it as possible...if we decide we do not want another baby for several years, I will get an IUD

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  • britti<3britti<3

    imageAprilsies:
    Nope - do not feel the same. I am a slutty horn dog and could not wait for my italian stallion (after I was cleared of course!) 

     

    lol! i love this.

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  • armandos_girlarmandos_girl member
    I'm not cleared to have sex yet, but I have absolutely no desire whatsoever.  I don't think DH does either.  We're still deciding about whether or not to go back on hormonal birth control.  Depending on how quickly we want another child, we might just chart to avoid and use condoms for awhile.
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  • alathamalatham member

    imageAprilsies:
    Nope - do not feel the same. I am a slutty horn dog and could not wait for my italian stallion (after I was cleared of course!) 

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  • Dan&MaggieDan&Maggie member
    Ugh, we've only had sex a few times since DS was born, and that was over 5 months ago. I know DH is wanting it again, but I seriously have no desire. :(
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  • b15chikb15chik member

    imagebritti<3:
    We've had sex twice. I could have done without lol.

    This, but I'm secretly hoping the pull and pray didn't work, lol.

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  • littlewifeylittlewifey
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    imagelittlewifey:

    What is your plan for birth control (other than continuing to not have sex:)??

    undecided at this point.... most likely I will just go on the mini pill and be as routine-ish with it as possible...if we decide we do not want another baby for several years, I will get an IUD

    I'm not familiar with the mini-pill, but I know we decided that even if we want another baby in 2 years, getting the 5 year IUD was totally worth it. I am a royal mess on BC pills, and I didn't like the ring either. I was ready for an IUD years ago, but I had to wait to have a baby to get it... Now I'm ready!

    p.s. I noticed another poster mentioned charting and condoms... we hate condoms, and we were charting when we got pregnant with DS, so that obviously wasn't the safest option :)?

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  • TennisWife815TennisWife815 member
    I got the ok today for sex and exercise. I was super excited about the later, which I've been doing already. The first one not so much.
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