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S/O: Creatingmiracles's post below

Smittenkitten05Smittenkitten05
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I thought it was kinda funny. How many of you have had sex with another adult in the room? (uh, hello, college dorms...lol. If you tell me you haven't, I don't think I will believe you - unless you were lucky enough to have a single all 4 years.) If you've done that, how is having sex with a newborn in the room any worse?

The newborn has no idea what is going on and can't lift his/her head to see you. Beyond that, they can barely see six feet in front of them. Now your college roommate on the other hand...Wink

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  • pixiedustiepixiedustie
    I never had sex with another adult in the room and I had a roommate in college....  and boyfriends.  Timing is everything.
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  • ABMcKinneyABMcKinney

    This seriously grosses me out. Sure, I can understand a newborn baby... but there's been posts before like... "We checked in to our hotel room and got in on while little Susie played on the floor". That is foul. How the hell can you even want to have sex while your child is awake and 5 feet away from you? Sure, I get turned on by my hubby all the time while Robbie is around, but I abstain from acting on it until he's not around us.

    I guess the argument that they won't remember is true... but again, how can you WANT to do it? Although to be honest it doesn't surprise me. There are often less than tasteful posts on here.

    As far as the college thing goes, that just shows a lack of class and self respect. Sex is a private thing.

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  • Smittenkitten05Smittenkitten05
    imageABMcKinney:

    This seriously grosses me out. Sure, I can understand a newborn baby... but there's been posts before like... "We checked in to our hotel room and got in on while little Susie played on the floor". That is foul. How the hell can you even want to have sex while your child is awake and 5 feet away from you? Sure, I get turned on by my hubby all the time while Robbie is around, but I abstain from acting on it until he's not around us.

    I guess the argument that they won't remember is true... but again, how can you WANT to do it? Although to be honest it doesn't surprise me. There are often less than tasteful posts on here.

    As far as the college thing goes, that just shows a lack of class and self respect. Sex is a private thing.

    I can understand not wanting to do it yourself but you seriously never had a roommate do it to you? (well maybe you really were asleep, haha).

    I was once talking about this with a large group of people (probably like 20 people) and everyone said they'd done it. Maybe I just hang out with a bunch of whackjobs though, lol.

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  • ABMcKinneyABMcKinney
    No, the company I keep wouldn't do that. However, I didn't do the whole college party thing. I've been with my DH since we were 18 and most of our friends are the same. We knew from our first date that we were going to get married and that lifestyle just never "fit" us.
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  • nick&nikkinick&nikki

    does having sex in a room with no door while a new year's eve party is going on count? Yeah I was 19...don't think I would do that now...

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