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punkfiction

happydragonhappydragon
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You are in my thoughts and prayers today.
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  • punkfictionpunkfiction

    thank you. i am going to actually drop the girls off at 5pm at my parents, eat dinner, hang out with dh, and then go to bed. at about 3am im gonna do the pills and then sleep during the "wait" period. then dh will take tomo off. i prob won't pick the girls up til thurs morning :( do you think that would work?

    (sorry i have to plan bc i have the kids and dh is taking work off)

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  • happydragonhappydragon
    I think its a good plan. I think you guys should have a good dinner and some wine and just try to relax. i know that sounds insane but when we came home from the dr this is what we did and it was very helpful to just be in a really calm, prepared atmosphere with the attitude of ok lets just deal with this in the best possible way we can. theres no getting around it, it sucks. but there are different ways to approach it you know? i just feel that a calm, positive proactive apprach (or as positive as you can get) is the best to get through this physical stuff. I just know it helped me to not really focus on how much it sucked and just getting my body back to normal and ready to make another baby. i dont know if yall are going to try again but thats the approach i took and it is really helping me through it. just finish this round so we can try again...is our thought process on it. I bet youre fine thursday. by my 2nd day i was ok. I actually drove to Austin on my 3rd day and camped out with my best friend at her house for two days and I was fine. We didnt do anything nuts other than going to cost plus but I was ok. Occasional cramping and continuous bleeding but nothing crazy or that my pain pills didnt take care of. I was very very very very very tired and felt flu-ish but I just napped about twice a day and continued my prenatals. i was totally fine after that (by day 6 i had no issues..only bleeding like a regular period occasional light cramping), up until day 7 when a wave of very bad cramping and heavy bleeding hit me. I think you should be fine thursday..i was still active (at work) on that 7th day just slower. Just remember to be nice to yourself and dont get frustrated if you cant go 100% which i know is hard when y ou have two babes and DH. you can do it. its going to be hard but you can do it i promise.
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  • punkfictionpunkfiction

    thank you :) all of that is such good advice.

    and i feel the same way you do. i just need for this to be done so we can start making another baby.  its gonna suck, but at least then we can put another baby in there sooner rather than later. :/


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  • happydragonhappydragon
    its true. lets gets over this huge roadblock and then we will long distance high five each other again over on the first tri board another day.
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