Your husband is right: people will pronounce it wrong. If that is going to bother you, don't use it, but if you think "lyn" and "line" is sort of splitting hairs and you'll just correct people, then use it.
My sister's name is Caroline and some people pronounce it the Carolyn way, but I think it is just them being dumb. Most people realize they are separate names.
Caroline and Carolyn are two separate names. Almost everyone knows that. Some people may ask you which name you are using just to be sure (if you just say it), but it will be rare that people will read "Caroline" written out and pronounce it Carolyn.
Although, I will say that I have a cousin named Caroline, and she does occasionally have people mispronounce her name. Not all the time, but it is annoying when people do it. It's easy enough to correct them, though!
Funny story -- I was "friends" with this girl in college who was kind of obnoxious. She was from the NYC suburbs, and apparently the name Caroline is more common in the South? Anyway, she and I met someone whose name was Caroline, and I asked, to clarify, if the girl was Caroline or Carolyn. My friend told me very snottily that "of COURSE the girl's name was Carolyn -- the only person who pronounced it CaroLINE was a friend of hers from high school." I was like, uh, no, I actually know many people with that name -- including my cousin! It was just so funny to me that she thought Caroline was an unusual pronunciation -- to me it's much more common than Carolyn!
Re: How do you pronounce Caroline?
Your husband is right: people will pronounce it wrong. If that is going to bother you, don't use it, but if you think "lyn" and "line" is sort of splitting hairs and you'll just correct people, then use it.
(It's my name, so I know what I'm talking about.)
I'm a Carolyn. Now that I live back East, I am called Caroline all the time. I think it's a regional thing.
Either way--nice name choice!
Maybe it's a New Yawk thing, but I don't pronounce the 1st syllable "care".
I'm a Carolyn: Cah-roh-lyn
Caroline: Cah-roh-line
Caroline = care-oh-line
Carolyn = care-ah-lynn
Although, I will say that I have a cousin named Caroline, and she does occasionally have people mispronounce her name. Not all the time, but it is annoying when people do it. It's easy enough to correct them, though!
Funny story -- I was "friends" with this girl in college who was kind of obnoxious. She was from the NYC suburbs, and apparently the name Caroline is more common in the South? Anyway, she and I met someone whose name was Caroline, and I asked, to clarify, if the girl was Caroline or Carolyn. My friend told me very snottily that "of COURSE the girl's name was Carolyn -- the only person who pronounced it CaroLINE was a friend of hers from high school." I was like, uh, no, I actually know many people with that name -- including my cousin! It was just so funny to me that she thought Caroline was an unusual pronunciation -- to me it's much more common than Carolyn!
Yes, that's a VERY New York thing!!!! I bet you say the name Carrie differently from how I say it too!
All my friends from NY pronounce those names the way you do!
These pronunciations exactly.
Carolyn is Care-o-lynn
Caroline is Care-o-line.