The suggestions to drink wine, or any type of alcohol to get in the mood. Yeah it may help loosen you up (for lack of better term!), but for me it makes it damn near impossible to O. So if I know I'm getting it on later, I usually avoid drinking.
Anyone else feel this way too?
Re: I don't understand...
I don't drink much, but when I do it always makes me sleepy. I have to be in the mood to O anyway and if I'm tired it might not happen.
This! I also don't like to drink before sex. I have to concentrate to O and I just can't do that drunk!