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Success after IF
krissyh21
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Rough emotional night at work last night (vent)
krissyh21
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I wish people would keep their mouth shut. Seriously. I work at a private club, with members who have been there forever and have known me forever. I have worked there for about 5 years, but I try to keep my personal life personal as much as possible.
No one knows about my IF, they just assumed that since I have been married for 7 years I did not want kids. Obviously SO wrong! ANyway word is out I am pregnant and a clueless guy comes in last night. This guy, in his late 40's is ignorant to the bone, says things like "women should be home cooking and cleaning and have no business working" Yeah total asshat, but an asshat I have to deal with without getting too hot tempered. For the most part I just walk away when he goes on his tangents but noone was there last night for me to walk away!
He starts out with "You have no clue what your getting into" Umm yeah I do but thanks anyway!
"Your life is over. You are going to be so miserable". NO asswipe - my life (at least that I have wanted forever) is just beginning K thanks and no I am sure I will have some rough days, what parent doesn't but so Not miserable!
Just on and on ignorant bullshit. When he says "What took so long - you finally learned to relax a little" UGGGGG! So I said "relaxing had nothing to do with it" "Oh so you didn't want this kid". "No I want it very much, just relaxation wasn't the magic pill"... "Oh my cousin so and so tried for years and one day she relaxed and got pregnant"
Asshats maybe your cousin also went through IVF but didn't feel like sharing with you because you are so closeminded and ignorant that she knows better!
Why are people so clueless? Can they just keep thier mouths shut?
I went to the bathroom and cried for a few minutes - mostly a hormonal cry, I've been doing that lol. When I got out I changed the subject to how I didn't cook for my husband who can fend for himself. Just to listen to him say how I am a lousy wife and need to cook before I come to work...
"Yep. I suck" :::eye role:::
A lot of years and a million tears finally led me to you.
After 7 years trying to concieve, 3 failed IUIs and 2 failed IVFs, my third IVF was a success!
My Christmas baby turned into a turkey bird! Dillon Richard was born at 34 weeks, 5 days on November 28, 2009 after 10 weeks on bedrest for preeclampsia.
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After 7 years trying to concieve, 3 failed IUIs and 2 failed IVFs, my third IVF was a success!
My Christmas baby turned into a turkey bird! Dillon Richard was born at 34 weeks, 5 days on November 28, 2009 after 10 weeks on bedrest for preeclampsia.
<a href="http://smg.photobucket.com/albums/v705/arriinthere/PJ/?action=view
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Re: Rough emotional night at work last night (vent)
His wife probably divorced him and he has no where else better to go.
I am sorry you had such a rough night!
Daycare is SO exhausting!
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After 7 years trying to concieve, 3 failed IUIs and 2 failed IVFs, my third IVF was a success!
My Christmas baby turned into a turkey bird! Dillon Richard was born at 34 weeks, 5 days on November 28, 2009 after 10 weeks on bedrest for preeclampsia.
<a href="http://smg.photobucket.com/albums/v705/arriinthere/PJ/?action=view
What a jackbutt! Im sorry he was such a jerk to you.
He obviously has some unresolved issues and feels the need to take them out on others. I hate people like this!