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3rd Trimester
So frustrated with DH
My main complaint is that I am roasting alive and meanwhile he goes behind me in the house and turns off the AC every freaking time!!! He does it in the car too when I turn on the air. His response....."You're not the only one in this house." Well Da*mnit neither is he and if he is cold, he can put on more clothes but I can't take mine off and walk around naked since SS is here.
Other complaints:
He tells me not to do the dishes, that he will do them, but never does.
He has been griping about helping me finish the baby's room when there are some things that I just cannot do.
He hasn't been helping me clean the house.
He won't massage my swollen ugly feet.
*Not to mention the fact that I go to school three nights per week and work 40 hours per week and I am studying for finals this weekend.
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Re: So frustrated with DH
I think he needs a wake up call. I had to do this with FI about week 26 when the decline began. I just sat him down for a talk and said he couldn't give any input till I was done. I was straight forward and nice about it (not too nice, lol) and it worked for us.
I hope it gets better for you!!
When he shuts the AC off in the house go outside in the car and put the AC on. Maybe he'll cave once he realizes you'll be wasting gas in the car.
I would just do the dishes when he isn't there. In my house it's only the 2 of us so it's not that hard to do.
I am also frustrated with my DH for many similar reasons. We just moved to a new home and I have unpacked 95% of our crap, organized almost everything, clean daily, take care of our 3 yr old all day as well, make dinner, still look presentable when he gets home, and he won't offer even once to rub my feet- even though I mention how achy they feel after being on them all day. Always turns the fans off...right after I turn them on. Doesn't even take the time to put the dishes in the dishwasher ( I asked him yesterday if he even knows how to use the thing) ..... so I have just stopped feeling guilty about not having sex with him and said forget it, he doesn't deserve it anyways, I'm not in the mood and he sure isn't helping put me in the mood.