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i am becoming a lot more anti-social

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i always needed my "alone time" but lately i have not wanted to see ANYone or make small talk. probably because a lot more things annoy me lately and i am more irritable.

anyone else like this?

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  • brandiemperdue2brandiemperdue2
    Totally with you there...my ma says its because we're wanting to start the nesting stage...i wont be able to move into my own home till about three or four weeks before the baby comes so she blames that...lol
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  • llggx2llggx2
    I don't know about the anti-social part but annoyed by more things all the time. My husband chews really loud and it drives me CRAZY.
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  • jday1229jday1229
    I feel like this a lot, mostly because things annoy me. Thank God I work from home and don't have to deal with anyone all day.
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  • MadorieMadorie member

    You're not alone. Same with me both pre and post my BFP.   I sometimes force myself to talk to people because before I know it, weeks will pass.

     

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  • wingsfan524wingsfan524
    Oh yeah!  I am actually distancing myself from all of my extended family (mainly because I am seriously ticked off at a certain situation) and I have even started distancing myself from my parents.  Oh well. I'm happy hanging out with DH and DS and don't want the family drama or aggrivation.
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  • mslaura04mslaura04
    I get annoyed a lot faster, that is for sure! Especially with a few certain people in my life! I have just learned to use the "ignore" button on my phone
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  • stephrodjoosstephrodjoos
    things and people have just become to annoying to me and uasually I can chandle anything. it's not anti -social it's frustration w/ things and people.
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  • starcollsstarcolls

    imagestephrodjoos:
    things and people have just become to annoying to me and uasually I can chandle anything. it's not anti -social it's frustration w/ things and people.

    yeah that's more like what it is. and the fact that i KNOW i will get annoyed with certain people/situations leads me to not want to interact with them.

    but i am normally highly annoyable so this is no surprise to me!

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  • anthiaNManthiaNM

    i don't feel like making calls anymore and when ppl call i just stare at the phone and dont pick, and if i pick i have no interest in what they are saying.

    aaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhh i hate being moody!!

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  • MadameFancyPantsMadameFancyPants member

    Me too.  I've also decided not to answer my phone.  Unless you are my nearest and dearest of friends, leave a VM and I'll decide when if and when I want to call you back. 

    This includes my family!

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  • schlinky85schlinky85 member
    Me too! DH used to come home from work and just want to sit and I always wanted to go out and call our friends....Now when he comes home he wants to go out and I just don't even want to deal w/ ppl! I'd rather clean the house for hours than go and listen to DH's friends' wives rambling!  I can't even pretend to listen any more, I just start drifting away and can't even maintain eye contact! lol what's the deal!?!
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  • AngelMell05AngelMell05 member
    I 100 percent agree with this... I am just so cranky and so moody. I don't even wanna deal with anyone. i really just wanna be around my husband 24/7. We decided to throw a house party in June but I am seriously regretting the though of having a million people at my house and having to cook and then clean after.. oyyyy
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  • eee23eee23

    I feel the same way. I have no tolerance right now and the last thing I want to do is chat on the phone. I will text until the cows come home but actually speaking to someone is probably not in my best interest right now. I was also exactly this way with my DD and all my friends have made comments about how I was MIA through the whole pregnancy. I told them I they have 2 choices: either I am not around or I am around and being a total bi-yotch. Luckily, my DH can handle it.

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  • bribblesbribbles
    So glad you mentioned it! I've been tired and cranky and completely disinterested in what people are saying when we are out to dinner with friends. Recently we were out and I wanted to go home around 10pm, and was told by a relative that I was "effing lame." Nice.
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