day care

I plan to make a change in my work sched wich will include our 19mo starting daycare/school:( i hate the idea of her going to school), but I want her to get some teaching, she home with me until i went back to work at 6mos, and my mom keeps her but now we need to look into a m-f setting, and I prefer an educational setting. We live in met but work on the wb, so either is an option, so please let me know what you think is best. I hate having to do this, as much as I did 19mo ago!!!! UUUUGGGGGHHHHHH......HELP PLEASE