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Friend acting weird - Vent

Jimsgirl5821Jimsgirl5821
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One of my good friends has been acting weird lately. When I call her it takes her forever to get back to me or she will call back at some time like midnight when I am asleep. She has been hanging out with this girl who is single and going drinking and stuff. I get the feeling that she is almost dropping me little by little because I am not up for going out a lot anymore and obviously wont be really going out much for awhile after LO comes, so she is more focusing on other people she can party with. I feel a little insulted because (we live 35 min apart) and when she was pregnant, even in first and early second tri, I would go to her town all the time because she wouldnt want to drive in rain while she was pregnant, or gets tired early and didnt want to deal with the long ride home from my house, or we had to go to whatever restaurant she wanted b/c she was the pregnant one. I am 31 weeks about and she never offers to come to my house, I still need to go there or she will invite me to do stuff like go to a bar and watch her drink.

 Im not trying to say I'm pregnant, she should kiss my ass, but I was sensitive to the fact when she was pregnant and it seems she still wants to do what is convenient or fun for her now that I am, or drop me altogether cause I'm not that "fun" anymore.

 Am I being oversensitive? Is anyone else dealing with a friend like this?

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Re: Friend acting weird - Vent

  • CorinneallysonCorinneallyson member
    No - I think your friend is being a complete b!tch. I don't know what to tell you - as I think many of us are going through that...I am....but it must be hard on your because you were there for her. I'm sorry...
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  • July_2009July_2009
    I am sorry your friend is turning her back on you when you really would love to have some attention from her..especially when you gave yours to her. I know the feeling. I have a couple of friends who totally dumped me ever since I got pregnant and started cutting down going out with them. They both are not that great friends but now they both hang out often and it has come to a point where I dont even know their whereabouts until I see FB. I guess Sh*t happens and we must move on. In a few weeks we will have a cute little person to take care of.
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  • MiaVonTMiaVonT

    That really does suck!

     

    I HAD a friend like that .... she never wanted to drive into the city where I live because she didn't know her way around ... so I'd always go by her.  We use to go out to bars together and hangout ... even call eachother for whatever .... but since I became pregnant she has called me once!  Sorry to say we are no longer friends because she doesn't return my calls .... some people are just selfish like that 

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  • majors31majors31
    she sounds like a craptastic friend.
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  • CalifragilisticCalifragilistic member
    wait- so she has a kid too and her main focus is finding/keeping friends that she can go out and party with? Does that seem weird to anyone else? She is being an assshole fo sho!
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