Trying to Get Pregnant

How to tell the Daddy-to-be....?

We're not "actively trying", but we're not "preventing" it from happening, and are both hopeful that it will happen relatively soon. I've begun thinking of cute and memorable ways to tell my hubby when we get pregnant, so that it is truly a special event and he feels involved in the pregnancy right from the start.

 Does anyone have any ideas??

Re: How to tell the Daddy-to-be....?

  • My DH was there with me when we waited to see what the test said. Not very creative, but he was involved.
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    I plan on jumping up and down on the bed to wake his ass up while waving the pee stick in his face. (whenever it might happen)

    He will probably remember that forever.

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  • image11Lemon11:
    My DH was there with me when we waited to see what the test said. Not very creative, but he was involved.

     This is how I am pretty sure it will be for us too.  We both work, so I will most likely test when we are both home.  Actually he will probably be downstairs thinking that I am just testing out of obsession and then run up when he hears the screams :-)  Can't wait for that moment!  I am having more fun trying to think of fun ways to tell my parents and in-laws. 

  • I had bought cutesie onesie's when we first started trying to be prepared.

    20 months later when I finally got my BFP - I'd completely forgotten about them.   For about a week after BFP.

    for BFP I came in the room, turned on the light, woke his ass up, and stuck pee sticks in his groggy/unfocused face

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  • I bought a onesie from babygap that said "libra" and a daddy baby book.  I wrapped them up along with the positive pregnancy test.
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  • Thanks everyone! keep the suggestions coming!

     Right now, I'm leaning toward getting a few books (he's a huge hockey fan, so probably 50 Below Zero by Robert Munsch, Z is for Zamboni, and the Hockey Sweater) and tying them up with pink and blue ribbon and writing a note on them saying "Daddy, I can't wait to meet you! Love Baby Szem"

  • I am trying not to plan ahead in the event this takes a while (as I suspect it will).  If I was late for AF I would tell him, and then test when he is home as well.
  • imageKie310:

    I plan on jumping up and down on the bed to wake his ass up while waving the pee stick in his face. (whenever it might happen)

    He will probably remember that forever.

    Thats what I did!! Hes so involved with the whole TTC process. He knows when I POAS even if I dont tell him!

  • I've said this on here before, so I'm sorry if you all have heard it already.

    When we started TTC I asked my DH if we wanted to be there when I tested or be surprised. DH loves, loves, loves surprises so I wasn't shocked that he said he wanted to be surprised. So, I ordered personalized fortune cookies that say "there will be a new addition to your family soon." When I get my BFP I will pick up Chinese take out (his fave) for dinner and throw the cookies in there.

    Unfortunately, though, this is cycle #8 and the cookies are probably stale now. Oh well, he doesn't have to eat them. It's whats inside them that counts :)  

  • imageSavat:

    I've said this on here before, so I'm sorry if you all have heard it already.

    When we started TTC I asked my DH if we wanted to be there when I tested or be surprised. DH loves, loves, loves surprises so I wasn't shocked that he said he wanted to be surprised. So, I ordered personalized fortune cookies that say "there will be a new addition to your family soon." When I get my BFP I will pick up Chinese take out (his fave) for dinner and throw the cookies in there.

    Unfortunately, though, this is cycle #8 and the cookies are probably stale now. Oh well, he doesn't have to eat them. It's whats inside them that counts :)  

    I love this! What a cute idea! Where did you order the cookies from?

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  • imageSavat:

    I've said this on here before, so I'm sorry if you all have heard it already.

    When we started TTC I asked my DH if we wanted to be there when I tested or be surprised. DH loves, loves, loves surprises so I wasn't shocked that he said he wanted to be surprised. So, I ordered personalized fortune cookies that say "there will be a new addition to your family soon." When I get my BFP I will pick up Chinese take out (his fave) for dinner and throw the cookies in there.

    Unfortunately, though, this is cycle #8 and the cookies are probably stale now. Oh well, he doesn't have to eat them. It's whats inside them that counts :)  

    THAT is a totally cute idea!  I love it! lol
  • imageSavat:

    I've said this on here before, so I'm sorry if you all have heard it already.

    When we started TTC I asked my DH if we wanted to be there when I tested or be surprised. DH loves, loves, loves surprises so I wasn't shocked that he said he wanted to be surprised. So, I ordered personalized fortune cookies that say "there will be a new addition to your family soon." When I get my BFP I will pick up Chinese take out (his fave) for dinner and throw the cookies in there.

    Unfortunately, though, this is cycle #8 and the cookies are probably stale now. Oh well, he doesn't have to eat them. It's whats inside them that counts :)  

    Oh, I like this idea too!

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  • I got DH a Daddy pregnancy book and wrapped it with the + stick.  He liked it Smile
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  • Lol...Savat that always gets people all excited .It's so inventive!
  • Sorry it took me awhile to respond. I had to go through my online bank statements to find the company. Here's a link. The minimum order is 12. This was by far the best deal I found. Plus, I received them w/in a week or so.
  • imageSavat:

    I've said this on here before, so I'm sorry if you all have heard it already.

    When we started TTC I asked my DH if we wanted to be there when I tested or be surprised. DH loves, loves, loves surprises so I wasn't shocked that he said he wanted to be surprised. So, I ordered personalized fortune cookies that say "there will be a new addition to your family soon." When I get my BFP I will pick up Chinese take out (his fave) for dinner and throw the cookies in there.

    Unfortunately, though, this is cycle #8 and the cookies are probably stale now. Oh well, he doesn't have to eat them. It's whats inside them that counts :)  

    I love your idea- it is so thoughtful.  DH is also the same way. He LOVES surprises.

  • imageCathyMD:
    Lol...Savat that always gets people all excited .It's so inventive!
    You think so? It's a pretty cliche way of proposing, but I guess not make people use it to tell DH they're ku :) I watched Bride Wars the other night and the douche bag guy proposed this way. It almost made me want to scrap the idea all together!
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    imageCathyMD:
    Lol...Savat that always gets people all excited .It's so inventive!
    You think so? It's a pretty cliche way of proposing, but I guess not make people use it to tell DH they're ku :) I watched Bride Wars the other night and the douche bag guy proposed this way. It almost made me want to scrap the idea all together!

    Do people propose that way? Shows you what I know. You know me. Not very romantic :)

     

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    imageSavat:
    imageCathyMD:
    Lol...Savat that always gets people all excited .It's so inventive!
    You think so? It's a pretty cliche way of proposing, but I guess not make people use it to tell DH they're ku :) I watched Bride Wars the other night and the douche bag guy proposed this way. It almost made me want to scrap the idea all together!

    Do people propose that way? Shows you what I know. You know me. Not very romantic :)

     

    I knew someone whose fiance proposed this way. Too bad he ended up cheating on her a couple months before the wedding. Total douche bag. Wait, he's a douche bag. The guy in the movie was a douche bag. I'm starting to see a trend. Yikes, maybe this isn't a good idea after all!
  • imageSavat:
    imageCathyMD:

    imageSavat:
    imageCathyMD:
    Lol...Savat that always gets people all excited .It's so inventive!
    You think so? It's a pretty cliche way of proposing, but I guess not make people use it to tell DH they're ku :) I watched Bride Wars the other night and the douche bag guy proposed this way. It almost made me want to scrap the idea all together!

    Do people propose that way? Shows you what I know. You know me. Not very romantic :)

     

    I knew someone whose fiance proposed this way. Too bad he ended up cheating on her a couple months before the wedding. Total douche bag. Wait, he's a douche bag. The guy in the movie was a douche bag. I'm starting to see a trend. Yikes, maybe this isn't a good idea after all!

    LMAO. I heart you savat. And you have email.

  • DH leaves for work before I get up so we couldn't test together.  I went to Things remebered and had  a baby bank engraved with "Baby Day's College Fund"  He had half a second of confusion before he figured out why I was giving him this.
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  • Give him an expectant father book.
  • Thans for all of the great ideas everyone! I picked up the books and a really beautiful Papryus card at Chapters...I know he'll be excited no matter how I tell him that we're expecting!
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