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Question of being "in the mood"

Jackieb3808Jackieb3808
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Ok may be too much Tmi, sorry if it is...

Just wondering, does any one else feel "in the mood " at times.. but when it comes down to it, its just not that more romance thing u had sometime months ago.. but more like well how are we going to position my huge stomach into some sort of managable order, or feeling like my swollen legs just dont want to move, and honestly id rather just go to sleep after all the hassel lol...

I feel that way more then not, but then I feel guilty, even tho he seems to not mind at all.... and if i dont feel guilty, or if my hormones want to play a role i feel "fat"

help! let me know im not alone lol

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Re: Question of being "in the mood"

  • patrickandkimpatrickandkim member
    Definitely not alone...I feel so bad for DH sometimes...Crying
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  • Madyson2006Madyson2006
    First of all..........not TMI at all. I think about it every night, then when it comes time to, I chicken out. See, he will finish and I won't while its actually ME who needs to so why give him all the benefits! oh and don't feel guilty at all, you are not alone sister!
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  • KRISTI88MAMAKRISTI88MAMA
    Same here, I think mine is more I need just the feel needed but nessesarily in a sexual way.  So i get all revved up for gettin it on but when it actually happens I get to ackward to enjoy it, it sucks!
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  • pbraty23pbraty23
    You are not alone.?
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  • mommastemmemommastemme
    You're definitely not alone!  DH hasn't even made a move in over a month but this weekend I "forced" him to have sex with me because it had been WAY too long and I feel bad for him!  It wasn't comfortable, but I powered through and he was super-nice to me the rest of the weekend Wink
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  • Jackieb3808Jackieb3808

    Ok lol Thank You...

    I feel better...

    He keeps telling me im supposed to feel most beautiful pregnant, and of course hes great no complaints... its just when my hormones want to react i go thru the im fat i dont want to have sex lol

    but its more that im getting less and less capable of feeling like i can mauever the new addition of 20lbs to my front side.

    but i guess since he goes on 7month deployments, he can deal with just a little here and there hahah

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  • Juniors_Wifey0709Juniors_Wifey0709
    I'm always in the mood for it, but then I think of how it's almost like a process, and I do it just for him, and I just concentrate so hard for it to just be successful and it gets ruined.
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  • laylabaileylaylabailey

    Yeah, I am always ready. Plus, my dreams have been insanely sexual. It weirds me out. DH doesn't complain though.

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  • NightmareMommyNightmareMommy

    Most of the time we have sex & I will refuse to orgasm..

    I help him climax, but I decline because I am terrified that I am going to pee. It hasn't happened yet.. but it's only a matter of time.

     

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