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CharBartCharBart
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BFN...I knew it was gonna be, so I think I took it a little better than expected.  This IF *** bites the big one!  I think I'm more upset about the fact that my Mom actually said that I'm trying to hard and when I least expect it...I wanted to scream but I know she was just trying to help.

So onto IVF....the coordinator didn't get back to me today so I will have to wait for Monday to talk to her. 

:::sighs:::

Well, at least DH is taking me to dinner at my favorite restaurant tonight...and I'm thinking I might have to drink at least 2 bottles of wine at dinner :)

Thank you for all the well wishes...it means so much that I have you guys to share with :)

I hope everyone has a great weekend!

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    CharBartCharBart

    oops!!  they censored me!!  hee-hee!

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    indianasunshineindianasunshine member

    Darn it, Char! ?I am so sorry. IF totally sucks! ?

    Enjoy your dinner and wine. ?I drank a bunch on Easter when I knew our IVF was right around the corner! ?

    Sending lots of (((HUGS))) your way!?

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    lilacfritzlilacfritz
    Sorry about the BFN.  This IF stuff is so hard.  Enjoy your dinner out and best of luck with your upcoming IVF cycle.
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    itsmexineitsmexine
    Crap crap crap crap crap!  I'm so sorry!! ::HUGS:: Left HugRight Hug   And sorry your mom said some thing that none of us wants to hear.  Enjoy your wine. I'll have a glass for you too. I hope the IVF coordinator gets back to you first thing on Monday so you can move toward your next plan. And you have a PM.
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    ColoradoMelissaColoradoMelissa

    I'm sorry!!  Hope that you and DH have a nice dinner and that you enjoy every single drop of those two bottles of wine!

     

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    sel*stellasel*stella
    Sorry about the BFN. I'll cross my fingers for you next cycle though!!
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    saverchicsaverchic
    Aye, Char, I'm sorry!  This IF stuff is a bunch of BS.  I hope you're having a nice night and enjoying lots of wine.  Sending big hugs your way, mi amiga.
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    tkcarnestkcarnes
    That sucks! I wish you luck with the IF and that you only need one more cycle to get pg.
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    nikkiw421nikkiw421

    I am so sorry about your BFN, and your mom's reaction to your news. Just know that you have a supportive husband and a great group of +35 friends here for you!

    Smile  try and have a great weekend!

    Nikki

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    hollymichaelhollymichael

    I'm sorry Char.  I hope you enjoyed your wine last night and that it helped make you feel a little better.

    Good luck with IVF. I am looking forward to your IVF success story!!

    I am curious, are you undiagnosed IF? Of have they found a specific issue that is making it hard to get pregnant?

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    AnotherChanceAnotherChance
    I'm so sorry to hear about your BFN.  I hope you had a great evening last night and I wish you lots of luck in getting that BFP very, very soon.
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    ToshaGirlToshaGirl member

    Fuvk. that's how you keep from being censored :)

    Sorry bella :(

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    CharBartCharBart

    imageitsmexine:

     And you have a PM.

    back at ya sister!

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    CharBartCharBart
    imageCathyMD:

    Fuvk. that's how you keep from being censored :)

    Sorry bella :(

    Ha! thought I did it right, but I was probably to angry to notice!

    Thanks Cat! Enjoy your run tomorrow...try not to get too tipsy at all the wine stations the girls seem to be setting up for you :)

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    CharBartCharBart

    Thanks for all the thoughts ladies!

    I appreciate it!!!

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    ToshaGirlToshaGirl member
    imageCharBart:
    imageCathyMD:

    Fuvk. that's how you keep from being censored :)

    Sorry bella :(

    Ha! thought I did it right, but I was probably to angry to notice!

    Thanks Cat! Enjoy your run tomorrow...try not to get too tipsy at all the wine stations the girls seem to be setting up for you :)

    Thanks. Sorry again :(

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    I'm sorry Char.  I hope you enjoyed your wine last night and that it helped make you feel a little better.

    Good luck with IVF. I am looking forward to your IVF success story!!

    I am curious, are you undiagnosed IF? Of have they found a specific issue that is making it hard to get pregnant?

    Thanks Holly! The only thing they found was that my FSH is high...it was around 12 and they like it to be at 10. DH's SA was mostly normal with slightly lower than average motility. So pretty much I think it's my moldy eggs that are causing this problem. 

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    DrVWifeDrVWife member
    I am sorry about your BFN.  IF really does suck!
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    GymDogFranGymDogFran
    Yes, this does s_ck!  I am so sorry!  I know that you will have a positive outcome with your IVF.  Hope you really enjoyed the wine and are sleeping in today! 
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    imageCharBart:
    imagehollymichael:

    I'm sorry Char.  I hope you enjoyed your wine last night and that it helped make you feel a little better.

    Good luck with IVF. I am looking forward to your IVF success story!!

    I am curious, are you undiagnosed IF? Of have they found a specific issue that is making it hard to get pregnant?

    Thanks Holly! The only thing they found was that my FSH is high...it was around 12 and they like it to be at 10. DH's SA was mostly normal with slightly lower than average motility. So pretty much I think it's my moldy eggs that are causing this problem. 

    Well, 12 doesn't sound too bad.  I really think IVF is going to do it for you.  Darn eggs.  It is really unfair.  They should just hang out and stay in good shape until we are ready for them!

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    leslieb923leslieb923
    Oh Crap, sorry to hear about the BFN. ?Hope your dinner was nice and the wine was plentiful last night. ?I got AF myself this morning and am ready to have a huge bottle of Diet Coke! ?(I don't really drink too much) ? ?
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    shyntrueshyntrue
    Char, sorry about the BFN.  That sucks!  I hope you had a good evening with DH!  Fingers crossed for next cycle!
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    Married2MrWrightMarried2MrWright member

    I am sorry...and hopefully your mom will realized that no matter how hard some people try they still need a little ART.  I think our mothers may have a hard time relating if they got PG "just thinking about it" and/or were young.  At least that's the case with mine.

    Good luck to you! 

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    I'm a little late to the post but wanted to say I'm sorry. Keeping my fingers crossed that IVF is successful.?
    TTC since 3/08 DOR, High FSH, Hypothyroid, Uterine Polyps, blocked tube, MFI, 5 rounds of clomid, 5 IVF attempts, 2 hysteroscopies, 2 natural conceptions=2 losses (Methotrexate, D&C) Successful DE cycle twins born 10/7/11 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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