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That disrespectful, arrogant SOB is going down when I get home... (total vent)

mrs.schwerymrs.schwery
in Nurseries and Baby Gear

So DH is in the Army and his friend has been staying with us for a while now because he's getting PCSed in like 2 weeks and didn't want to take out a new lease.  He's been in our house since late March and it wasn't such a big deal at first.  He does pay rent and half of utilities so it's been a nice help financially.  Well he was gone all last month due to training and it was the most wonderful thing in the world.  He came back last week and has just about gotten on my last nerve.  The night he came home he blasted the A/C down to like 40 and then left all the windows open... Ummm WTH?!  Then the next day the A/C is broken, which I learned today wasn't his fault but coincidence much?! 

The baby's room is still a storage room and whatnot but it was organized when he was gone.  He came home and trashed it.  He dumped his dirty Army sh*t on baby clothes which I fully intend to wash later, but it's the fact of the matter.  I can't even walk in the room without tripping over stuff.  He doesn't do the dishes or pick up after himself and I'm so done with it.  I can't wait for his ass to be gone.

 Not to mention, he just came back from Robin Sage which is the last phase of the Special Forces training course and has seriously been driving me crazy.  He parades around the house in his green beret like the sun shines out of as*hole.  My husband was supposed to graduate with him but couldn't so it's like he's trying to rub it in his face.  I'm seriously about to smack him, I get that he's excited but there's no need for you to talk down to my husband about it. 

So NOW I'm at work and my friends texts me telling me that he is on my screen name and talking to her trying to get her to say stuff that I've said to her about him.  He's pretending to be me to get information.  I'm going to effing kill him.  If I'm in jail tomorrow, you know why.

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Re: That disrespectful, arrogant SOB is going down when I get home... (total vent)

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    mrs.schwerymrs.schwery
    DANG IT! totally the wrong board.. MY BAD!  Won't let me delete it either.. ughhh
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    AshNicole331AshNicole331
    Well even though it was posted on the wrong board, I still found it an interesting read. He sounds like a gigantic turd! You should have DH talk to him about a little thing called BOUNDARIES...and for someone who should be so disciplined in the military, he should know better to clean up after himself and help sometimes around the house.
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    bridesrighthandbridesrighthand member

    imageAshNicole331:
    Well even though it was posted on the wrong board, I still found it an interesting read. He sounds like a gigantic turd! You should have DH talk to him about a little thing called BOUNDARIES...and for someone who should be so disciplined in the military, he should know better to clean up after himself and help sometimes around the house.

    HUGE Ditto!  What a giant jerk!  Is he really young? That could be part of it.  Yikes!  Hope it gets better.

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    laylabaileylaylabailey
    Ugh! You're making me nervous! DH's brother is coming home from Egypt in September, and says he can't stand their parents enough to stay there so he wants to come here. DH has already told me horror stories about when he stayed with him for just a week before, and I am not looking forward to it. Not only that, but he met this girl from an Egyptian dating service and he plans on marrying her ( the same week my baby is due!!!! ) and bringing her home as well! Dh is totally chill with it. It's worse enough that he works 5 days a week, 12 hour shifts and I hardly get to see him. Not to mention the fact that he will hardly have time with the baby, and I will probably have to pick up after his brother and his wife!!!!
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    dec13thdec13th member

    omg

    wrong board but WTH

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    busybeabusybea
    Wrong board? who cares... I say police escort his a*s outta there!   He's a bonafied jerk!
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    bwilkerson0220bwilkerson0220
    I'm sorry for you. That really sucks! He sounds like a huge self centered *** and I would just keep aking when he is leaving and bitchhing at him about leaving  messes everywhere until he finds some place else to stay. You could also tell him you are trying to get the baby's room organized and you appreciate him not going in there!
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