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Going back to work
BennyL
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Hi ladies,
I'm going back to work in 3 weeks. Do you have any tips on:-
-getting DS used to daycare
-getting back into the work mode
-finding time to do chores, spend time with DH etc
I know this is a lot, but any advice would be appreciated. TIA!!!!
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Re: Going back to work
getting DS used to daycare
Talk to your daycare about doing a couple trial days or mornings/ afternoons before you go back to work. That usually works out well for everyone. Also, you might want to leave the baby with a baby sitter here and there to get everyone used to the idea. I usually had some doctor's appts before I went back to work to get out of the way, so I'd use a babysitter for that those last few weeks.
-getting back into the work mode
I always said I was going to start waking up early a week before I went back to work ... I never did. It was fine. After a couple days, you're back in the mode.
-finding time to do chores, spend time with DH etc
With chores, you will probably have to just let some stuff go. Spending time with your family is more important than a spotless house. If you can afford a cleaning lady, even if it's just 1x a month, it will be money well spent. Have your DH help in the evening and then you can both sit down and relax together. Try to get out for a date 1-2x a month, even if it's just an early movie or a dinner out on a weeknight.
My guys went to daycare at 5 months - they were very laid back babies, and had no trouble getting used to it, so I don't have any advice there.
But, for finding time to do chores: For the most part, chores are only done on the weekends. My time with the kiddos/dh is so limited, and the last thing I want to do when I get home is chores. I do work from home once a week, so I'm able to throw in some laundry then.
As for getting back into work mode - that took a few weeks, but it did happen. Not really advice...but....
Good luck!