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Feeling Positive

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For the first time since my miscarriage (Beginning of April)  I woke up feeling positive about things and refreshed! 

How long did it take you post miscarriage to feel good about your life again?

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  • texas77texas77 member
    well it's hard to say because i was faking it for a long time after the m/c and then all of a sudden i guess the faking became real.  i still have my bitter ute moments from time to time.  glad you are feeling better. 
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  • Mrs0815Mrs0815
    I felt better when we started trying but with every BFN I get that punch in the gut feeling again.  I hope I never "forget" but I think with time it gets much better, good luck!
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  • KelinandKevinKelinandKevin member

    imageMrs0815:
    I felt better when we started trying but with every BFN I get that punch in the gut feeling again.? I hope I never "forget" but I think with time it gets much better, good luck!

    This, exactly!?

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  • HeidiseanHeidisean member

    imageMrs0815:
    I felt better when we started trying but with every BFN I get that punch in the gut feeling again.  I hope I never "forget" but I think with time it gets much better, good luck!

    This!

    I had 2 mc's after having dd so everytime I get pregnant it is an emotional rollercoaster for about a month and even now on 4th cycle after last mc, I can honestly say I still don't feel great!

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  • alwyzbsyalwyzbsy

    imageMrs0815:
    I felt better when we started trying but with every BFN I get that punch in the gut feeling again.  I hope I never "forget" but I think with time it gets much better, good luck!

    This. 

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  • JenyMJenyM member

    not to be a downer but as soon as i started feeling better, i m/c again.So, i'm back to hating life.


    BFP#1 missed m/c-d&c 10/27/08, BFP#2 BO-natural m/c 5/15/09, BFP#3 8/12/09-DS born 4/2010, BFP#4=TWINS-missed m/c&d/c 6/15/11, BFP#4 11/22/11- please stay with me
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  • garcia15garcia15
    I would have sporadic days of "happiness" and then I'd wake up the next day feeling just as crappy. ?I also faked it for a long, long time. ?I would say it took quite a few months to really feel good about my life again. ?However, now I'm just bitter that it's been 1 yr and 1/2 and I'm still not pg. ?Months and months of BFNs kind of take the happiness away. ?I'm glad to see your positive attitude though! I hope it doesn't fade like mine and so many others.
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  • sunsetlovesunsetlove member
    I too have the up and down days.. sometimes i'm sitting in my car, i hear my fav song i start to sing and i'm good,  other days, it's hard to wake-up thinking my baby would have been so many months by now( my edd was this past feb). .. it's even harder seeing a close family member( who is pg)..go through her pg complaining... but not achknowlege i'm still hurting... yet.. i still feel a glimmer of hope when i hear women's success stories of pg after a loss... it's great you are feeling positive today.. remember we are here if you need some extra uplifting..
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers BFP 2# 7/5/09,EDD:3/26/10,MC:9/23/09. We Miss our Lucky Charm.
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  • redshoegirlredshoegirl member

    In general or about pregnancy?

    In general, I'd say probably not until last cycle - I mean not genuinely. There was the face I showed to the world vs what I felt inside.

    About pregnancy, not until this cycle - this is the first time I've felt anything near confident and positive about our efforts since the m/c.

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