bfp :(

Sophie Bloom · May 2009

I think i've been crying all day... only good thing is derek is being helpful with the girls today. But the way he looked at me when i told him it was like it was my fault.

Not sure what we're going to do yet.

versed · May 2009

Big ((hugs))?

pinkwedding05 · May 2009

Hugs.

BarnStar · May 2009

((hugs))

mrs_ross07 · May 2009

yikes. ((hugs))

brisell23 · May 2009

Big Hugs

CJinMD · May 2009

(((hugs)))

valkaz · May 2009

Phia26:
But the way he looked at me when i told him it was like it was my fault.

You didn't get pregnant by yourself.

Sending you good thoughts.

LoveTek · May 2009

I went through a similar scare recently and was terrified, so I can totally understand how you're feeling. It's completely overwhelming. But you know what? You WILL get through this and everything will turn out okay. I'll be thinking of you.

ocean71506 · May 2009

((hugs))

GeminiKMP-C · May 2009

HUGS!

This is about the same time that abj22 found out she was pregnant. I bet she could give you some helpful enouragment from someone who's been there. It's Ok to be shocked and horrified. You and Derek will get through this together. Everyone I know who had kiddos super close together says it's hard when they're little, but as they get older it is wonderful and they wouldn't have it any other way. Big hugs, sweetie. We're all here for you!

Crazycrustacean · May 2009

I'm sorry you haven't gotten the outcome you were expecting, but can I ask the obvious question here?

If you didn't want to get pg, then why didn't you use some sort of birth control??

jnealet · May 2009

Big hugs!

abj22 · May 2009

GeminiKMP-C:
HUGS!
This is about the same time that abj22 found out she was pregnant.? I bet she could give you some helpful enouragment from someone who's been there. ?

Yes I found out the day Avery turned 5 months old that I was pregnant again. We weren't trying but we also weren't avoiding so I knew in the back of my mind it was a possibility. But I was still totally shocked. And SO overwhelmed. And it is absolutely ok to feel that way. I think I've gotten over the initial shock of it and have started to just focus on all the positives. And there are SO MANY positives to having 2 so close together. I'm now really excited about it. Please page me or email me if you want to talk more. andraj22 at yahoo

earthboundmisfit · May 2009

I'm so sorry..as much as I want another baby someday, I would be very upset with a BFP right now as well. I hope things work out for you and your boyfriend and you find peace with whatever decision you make regarding the pregnancy.?

newtlet · May 2009

Oh honey, I'm sorry it wasn't the news you wanted. Big hugs.

Don't let him put all the blame on you--it does take two to get pregnant, and you need to be very together right now and support each other. I hope he turns his head around quick.

Take good care.

stargirlkate · May 2009

(((hugs)))

cloud9climber · May 2009

((((((((((huge hug))))))))))

Skatcat · May 2009

Wow, seriously? That's astounding....

Whatever decision you make will be the right one.

(hug))

SpartanGirl · May 2009

(((HUGS)))

cloud9climber · May 2009

Crazycrustacean:
I'm sorry you haven't gotten the outcome you were expecting, but can I ask the obvious question here?
If you didn't want to get pg, then why didn't you use some sort of birth control??

I'm curious too... ?we're you using any birth control???

Sophie Bloom · May 2009

cloud9climber:
Crazycrustacean:
I'm sorry you haven't gotten the outcome you were expecting, but can I ask the obvious question here?
If you didn't want to get pg, then why didn't you use some sort of birth control?
I'm curious too... we're you using any birth control??

we did in fact, condoms every time.

Sophie Bloom · May 2009

thank you everyone for your supportful words. very glad i have a place to vent and talk with people who understand.

cloud9climber · May 2009

Phia26:
cloud9climber:
Crazycrustacean:
I'm sorry you haven't gotten the outcome you were expecting, but can I ask the obvious question here?
If you didn't want to get pg, then why didn't you use some sort of birth control??
I'm curious too... ?we're you using any birth control???
?
we did in fact,? condoms every time. ?

ugh... so sorry. ?that's what we're using right now until I get my IUD on the 10th. ?I would be so freaked if I got pregnant because we only want one child. ?I can totally identify with how you're feeling right now because I had to take a pregnancy test the week before last. ?

I wish you peace with your decision. ?((hug))?

Sophie Bloom · May 2009

cloud9climber:

ugh... so sorry. that's what we're using right now until I get my IUD on the 10th. I would be so freaked if I got pregnant because we only want one child. I can totally identify with how you're feeling right now because I had to take a pregnancy test the week before last.
I wish you peace with your decision. ((hug))

I guess its always a risk but i thought with bf and all i'd be safe. wish you the best of luck getting your IUD, i had those but i have other medical issues that make it not an option.

cloud9climber · May 2009

Phia26:
cloud9climber:

ugh... so sorry. ?that's what we're using right now until I get my IUD on the 10th. ?I would be so freaked if I got pregnant because we only want one child. ?I can totally identify with how you're feeling right now because I had to take a pregnancy test the week before last. ?
I wish you peace with your decision. ?((hug))?
?
I guess its always a risk but i thought with bf and all i'd be safe.? wish you the best of luck getting your IUD,? i had those but i have other medical issues that make it not an option.?

You're BF AND using condoms?!?!?! ?Wow. ?:/

Sophie Bloom · May 2009

cloud9climber:

You're BF AND using condoms?!?!?! Wow.

yeah i've always been lucky... or unlucky that way i mean my first daughter i wasn't even having periods because i was at such an unhealthy weight.

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