I really need help cleaning.

Re: I really need help cleaning.

• Nicavesani

  May 2009

  You ARE working... you're building a baby! ?That takes a lot out of you. ?You don't have to EARN the stuff you H gives you... you're his wife! ?

  Here's what I do... I choose a task and then make it seem like I've been doing it all day and that it was exhausting for me. ?Today will be toilets and sinks. ?

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• EmilyBowes

  May 2009

  you're in your 3rd trimester of pregnancy. if H bitches about dishes not being done, etc, then he's the one that needs to be bitched at. and 'earn' the stuff H gives you? please. you're married, you're a team. if that's how he makes you feel then he needs to get over it. sorry, but that's my two cents, take it or leave it. the end.

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• hisbabybear member

  May 2009

  um marriage counseling?
  

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• orion09

  May 2009

  AlwysAwsm:

  Fridays are technically my Saturdays since I work Sundays. I had a huge to do list for today and now it is noon and I still have all my breakfast dishes out. I don't know how I am going to get anything done. I just want to sit here and relax but I know I will be bitched at as soon as my H comes home. Plus I can't get any hours at work except about 5 a week because I'm pregnant so I have no money so I feel like I have to work around the house to "earn" the stuff my H gives me.
  

  huh? Like earn... what exactly? I don't work due to pregnancy... and seeing that I'm so tired DH just has to understand that I'm getting things done when I can....

  just don't stress yourself out.
  

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• mburkhe member

  May 2009

  I have an uncontrollable urge to go home and clean my entire house top to bottom. If I could come help you I would!

  

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