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Are you ruining dh's fun too?

SugarRiotSugarRiot
in 3rd Trimester

All dh wants to do lately is have fun, and I just don't have the energy. He wants to take a ferry to fire island and walk around and go out to eat and have drinks (not me obviously) with some friends. He's mad cause I said I don't want to go. I really don't want to sleep somewhere else and walk everywhere. Besides I can't party like they can. This is getting depressing.

?Is anyone else having these issues with dh??

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Re: Are you ruining dh's fun too?

  • clyoungseyclyoungsey
    Me in the hospital has officially ruined everyone's fun
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  • emclarenicksemclarenicks
    Yeah, DH is now at the agreed point.  He plays softball Weds and Thurs and can only go to the bar after on one of those nights.  When we talk about him coming home early, he always asks "what's in it for me?"  Okay, I feel like a beached whale at this point, and the thought of sex isn't exactly top on my list....whatever, I'm a pregnant frigid biiitch these days I guess.....
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  • allison_oaksallison_oaks
    DH's only problem with me so far is I've forbidden him from smoking his pipe indoors. He completely understands why, but it was a part of his winding down after work everyday and now he can't sit there without pants and puff away, he has to go outside. He hasn't really complained too much, but I get a lot of heavy sighs about it. LOL
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  • emariaemaria
    no we're currently too busy to have fun - we own a company together and business is crazy so we really can't get away plus we're selling our house.  we're focused on moving and buying our dream home so fun as of right now is nonexistent.  at least i don't get blamed for it lol!
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  • JennifernKevin4everJennifernKevin4ever
    Yep I have. He gets upset and says I just want to have fun until the baby comes. Then I won't get to have fun onces he is here. I tell him that my fun ended months ago when I can't drink and party. It's true! Atleast he still is able drink.
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  • JewelzNBeanJewelzNBean member

    Ooooh we are completely the opposite! I want to get out and do as much as possible before LO comes, and he is tired from work every day and doesn't want to spend any money. It's totally fair that he feels that way, but I feel like I am going to be housebound forever now!!

    When he DOES feel like even going for a walk or whatever (once in a blue moon!), I am always the one who is too tired to go and he gets all frustrated... <sigh>

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