I sadly join you girls...

Re: I sadly join you girls...

• sunsetlove member

  May 2009

  Sorry for your loss.. my thoughts are with you &your family..

  BFP 2# 7/5/09,EDD:3/26/10,MC:9/23/09. We Miss our Lucky Charm.

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• afales

  May 2009

  I am so sorry for your loss. 

  I had a missed miscarriage at about 8 weeks and I had a D&C the next day (we discovered the miscarriage at an u/s appointment).  My doctor insisted on a D&C because she was worried about bleeding. 
  

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• mrs.viv07 member

  May 2009

  I had 2 my 1st was at 9wks and the 2nd at 6wks, i chose to have it done i just wanted it over with, i figured personally waiting it out would just drag it and if everything didn't come out i would have to have a d&C anyway but again that was my choice.
  GL and i'm so sorry for you loss
  

  BFP #1 May 2000 ~ Darren was born Jan 13, 2001 ~ 6lbs 2oz 191/2" ~ 39 wks due to low fluid, otherwise perfect pregnancy
  July 2004 abnormal pap, colposcopy and LEEP procedure ~ paps every 3 months all normal for 1 year
  2006 all clear to start TTC
  HSG Nov 2007 ~ all normal except mild left tube blockage
  BFP #2 Dec 2007 EDD sept 3 ~ missed m/c ~ Feb 14 2008 ~ 9wk 2d D&C
  BFP #3 Apr 2008 EDD Dec 10 ~ ectopic ~ May 2008 ~ 5wk 2d ~ emergency lap surgery, lost left tube
  BFP #4 Jul 2008 EDD May 5 ~ missed m/c ~ Aug 2008 ~ 5wk 2d D&C - trisomy 16
  RPL panel Aug 2008 ~ diagnosed with compound hetero MTHFR
  BFP #5 Nov 2008 EDD Jul 31 ~ blighted Ovum ~ Dec 2008 ~ 4wk 3d ~ natural m/c at home for my birthday
  BFP #6 Feb 2009 EDD Oct 15 ~ 4wk 3d ~ chemical pregnancy ~ Mar 2008
  BFP #7 May 18 2009 ~ Gabriel Michael ~ Jan 19, 2010 ~ 7lbs 2oz 21"
  TTC again since Jan 2011
  BFP #8 Jun 2011 EDD Jan 20 ~ 5wk 6d ~ missed m/c ~ D&C
  July - Hysterscopy removed some polyps, all clear for IUI with clomid
  Aug-Oct - IUI - with Clomid all BFN
  Nov-Jan - IUI - with femara and trigger = BFN
  back to TTC naturally on our own hoping for another miracle.
  
  
  
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• lovesinthehouse

  May 2009

  I am so sorry for your loss. I think if you want to wait it out, you should. That said, I opted to miscarry naturally and I bled on and off and passed tissue several times over the course of 3 months. I will not do that again, but in one sense I am glad that I had the time to grieve and process without jumping back into TTC.
  

  missed miscarriage began 04/08, ended 07/08

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• redshoegirl member

  May 2009

  I'm very, very sorry for your loss.
  

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• MrsEzStar member

  May 2009

  I'm soo sorry!  That is exactly what happened to me!  I understand how you are feeling and know that we are here for you.  You'll get through this. 

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• carasizemore member

  May 2009

  I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your DH.

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• W.Bear

  May 2009

  I am sorry for your loss.  I think it really depends on your doctor and what you want.  You may want some more time to process the whole thing.
  

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• mrstyson03

  May 2009

  I'm truly sorry for your loss. I don't know if this helps, but my OB did a couple of u/s and kept checking my betas to see how quickly they were dropping. After 2 weeks he was satisfied that I was M/C naturally. Up until that point he said a D&C might be an option, but he preferred not to and so did I.

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• OregonMama

  May 2009

  I'm so sorry for your loss. I was at 14 weeks so had to have a d&C (baby measured 10w5d) so I'm not sure at 8 weeks what is normal. I just wanted to tell you I'm sorry.

  

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• ~*BREN*~ member

  May 2009

  I am sorry for your loss   I opted to have a D&C and it is a very common procedure.  I had a missed miscarriage and discovered it much like you did.  My little one had only developed to 6W and my body still thought I was pregnant which is why I opted to go for the D&C.  I was ready to begin the healing process.  Many **HUGS** to you.  We are all here whenever you need to vent...take care.
  

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• Alexandra*sMom member

  May 2009

  Hugs!  I am so sorry for your loss.

  I had 2 m/c and both were natural.

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• mistral

  May 2009

  I'm so sorry for your loss :-(

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• mrsfarmer0711

  May 2009

  So sorry for your loss. My Dr said anything over 6 weeks he recommends a D&C. Welcome to the board!

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• Cow-girl member

  May 2009

  So sorry to hear of your loss.  (((((((HUGS)))))))

  I had a D&C with a blighted ovum at 8 wks (developed til 6 wks).  It helped me get things over with and move on..

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• wannabmommy

  May 2009

  I'm so sorry that you are having a loss. ::hugs:: I wish you didn't have to join us (meaning I wish you wouldn't have had a loss) and I hope your stay is short whenever you do start ttc again.

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• JenyM member

  May 2009

  So sorry for your loss :-(

  It depends, if the doc doesn't feel like you will pass it on your own or completely. I had a d&c with the first and just had a natural. The D&C is painless. If I were you, I'd ask to have the tissue tested for chromosomal abnormalities. Some, doc don't do this on the first loss but you can request it.

  Let me know if you need anything. We are here for you.

  I'm also from NJ

   

  BFP#1 missed m/c-d&c 10/27/08, BFP#2 BO-natural m/c 5/15/09, BFP#3 8/12/09-DS born 4/2010, BFP#4=TWINS-missed m/c&d/c 6/15/11, BFP#4 11/22/11- please stay with me

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• Strunella member

  May 2009

  Thank you so much for your kind words!  I had dinner with a friend tonight and actually laughed and enjoyed myself as it got my mind off of this situation.  But now that it's just DH and me, the reality is front and center again.  It's comforting to have this board and I wish the best for all of you too!

   

  

   

   

  

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