TTC After a Loss

I volunteered to throw a baby shower

I'm not sure if I'm just feeling really optimistic that I'll be KU by then or I'm just a masochist, but I did it.

I've been trying to decide if I was strong enough to throw the shower for a close friend at work who's due in sept (almost exactly a yr after Sophia was born).

I finally decided that I'd be sadder if I didn't try to do this for her.  She threw me an awesome shower and I just want to do the same for her and make this special.  

I'm proud of myself for volunteering now, but I may need some pep talk as the date gets nearer.  lol 

Re: I volunteered to throw a baby shower

  • That is SO nice of you.  Your a good friend!!!!!!
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  • I think it's a great thing you are doing for your friend. She will surely appreciate it. You know we're here if you need to vent, cry, or laugh through the process. I have now become a master at diaper cakes (just made one, but I consider myself a master, haha) so if you need any tips I'd be happy to help!
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  • image4thofJulyWedding:
    I think it's a great thing you are doing for your friend. She will surely appreciate it. You know we're here if you need to vent, cry, or laugh through the process. I have now become a master at diaper cakes (just made one, but I consider myself a master, haha) so if you need any tips I'd be happy to help!

    Oh, I would LOVE to learn how to make a diaper cake.  Do you have a pic of one that you can share?

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  • I think that's so wonderful of you, and even though it may be bittersweet I think it's good for your soul to do something so selfless.
  • That's so wonderful that you decided to do this!  We are here to help you through the journey no matter how you are feeling, but seriously, this was such an awesome selfless move on your part.  Kudos to you!!! Yes
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    image4thofJulyWedding:
    I think it's a great thing you are doing for your friend. She will surely appreciate it. You know we're here if you need to vent, cry, or laugh through the process. I have now become a master at diaper cakes (just made one, but I consider myself a master, haha) so if you need any tips I'd be happy to help!

    Oh, I would LOVE to learn how to make a diaper cake.  Do you have a pic of one that you can share?

    I'll have to take one tonight. It's still not completely done, need to make the topper, but the actual cake itself is done. It's actually really easy and a lot of the girls on here gave me some great links. I googled the images of some and then went from there (I'm a visual learner). I'll try to remember to take a pic tonight though! It was really fun to make though.

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  • You are a wonderful person for doing this!!
    Started TTC in August 2007, 1st BFP March 2008, natural m/c April 11th, 2008. 2nd BFP 1/1/09, diagnosed with possible ectopic 1/16/09, got Methotrexate shot 1/18/09. On Bromocriptine to balance my high prolactin levels (thanks to tiny brain tumor) that messes with my body. Long cycles and unexplained infertility suck monkey balls! July 09- Clomid 50mg HCG shot TI prog. supps= negative. August 09- Clomid 50mg HCG shot IUI prog. supps=negative. September 09- Clomid 50mg HCG shot b2b IUI's prog. supps: negative. October 09- Clomid 100mg HCG b2b IUI's prog.supps: negative. November 09- cycle cancelled due to cyst.... IVF is next.... December 09- Beginning of IVF, Lupron, BCP's Jan-Feb 10- IVF retrieved 6 matured eggs, all fertilized, 2 transferred, 1 lost, 3 frozen= BFP! betas: 8dp5dt (13dpo)= 176, 11dp5dt (16dpo)= 728! October 2010: Boy/Girl twins born. Now... trying to get fit!
  • I threw a shower for my SIL about two weeks after we lost the babies. It was really hard, mostly because of the reactions of the people there. They were all close family and friends and my mom had told everyone. The looks and hugs and words of 'encouragement' from them was the hard part. Watching someone that I love celebrate the arrival of someone she loves and that I was going to be able to love made it all worth it in the end. GL and I'm very proud of you for volunteering.
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    Joe and Ashley ~ June 16, 2007 ~ Olivia Rae ~ May 12, 2008 ~ 9:06 pm ~ 8lbs 4oz ~ 20.5 inches ~ Miscarriage of twins ~ April 16, 2009 at 6 weeks. ~ Surprise BFP 6/23/09 13DPO ~ Eleanor Rose ~ February 18, 2010 ~ 6lbs 15oz ~ 20 inches ~ Caroline Ruth ~ February 19, 2013 ~ 6lbs 12 oz ~ 19 1/4 inches

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