1st Trimester

Are you irritated all the time? I am.

I am finding that my fuse is really short these days. Everything DH seems to do I find irritating or that he is not being very sensitive to me. Some of what ticks me off is rational, some isn't.?

Work is not much better. We just moved to Texas and I am freelancing for my old company in California for a while. I am starting to get attitude from my old assistant and it makes me crazy! I know that she no longer reports to me, but damn...pushing work off on me like I now work for her is also not acceptable.

Maybe I am in a funk or it is the hormones, but I am not liking how easy it is to piss me off.

Any one else? ?

Re: Are you irritated all the time? I am.

  • DereKimDereKim member
    i get irritated when i yawn and DH says...let me guess, youre tired?  so annoying
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  • I am pissed off all the time- It doesn't matter what it is, who did it or why-

    Grrr-

  • Oh I find myself very irritable but on the plus side it doesn't take me long to figure out I'm being irrational and shut myself up! The littlest things tend to set me off and I have no clue why but I just want to scream about them, luckily I contain myself pretty well!
  • yes, all the time.
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  • I'm horribly irritable. It's balancing out, compared to before, but I still feel insane half the time.
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  • My patience is thin, that's for sure!

    I work with a bunch of kids that just want school to be over for the year (me too!) and I have to try hard to remember not to be too sarcastic with them.

    I find myself losing patience with poor DD, too, but I think I do a pretty good job of hiding it.  She's wayyyyyy too young to understand.

  • Yes and yes. ?I started crying last night again because I am just so frustrated. ?We've been sitting in our condo surrounded by boxes for two weeks now, because Escrow did not close last week as planned. ?I can't eat another takeout meal and I am just so sick of living like this. ?I find myself getting mad at my husband every day because of it, even though I know it's not his fault. ?:(
  • Suzi-G-Suzi-G- member
    I am NOT being irritable!  People are just stupid and annoying!  Uh yeah.  DH can't breathe without me snapping at him sometimes, poor guy. 
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  • I am irritable almost all day, then spend the night crying from being so irritated all day.

    Sigh.  I love pregnancy hormones.

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  • Yup, me too.  I get so irritated at even some of the smallest things.  I manage to hold in a lot of it at work, because I value my career, but then it all gets unleashed on my poor husband.  Sometimes he's really great about it and sometimes he goes to his office, closes the door, and ignores the pregnant monster for a while. 
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  • yeah i just texted dh "sorry i was such a crab this morning :(" bc i was just bottom-line cranky.
  • I feel like with our first PG DH was much more sensitive to my feelings. He even admitted the other night that he isn't being as lovey dovey to me this time because now he is confident in my abilities as a mother and he knows I can handle everything. I guess now that our DD is turning 4 he knows I'm a good mom and doesn't worry about how I will care for his child. When I was PG with our DD he told me he was nervous about what the future held.

    Just because he knows I am a good mom doesn't mean I don't need the same amount of love and attention that I got with my first pregnancy. Sad

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  • Not me.  I'm totally pleasant to be around, all the time Cool

    Just kidding.  I've gone off the deep end a couple of times the past few days.  Daggone symptoms.  Being sick and/or tired constantly would make anyone cranky, I think.

  • Novem06Novem06 member
    I definitely have a short fuse!  I've just now started feeling super tired/like I"m hungover all day.  Any time I tell DH I don't feel good he's like "why what's wrong?" like he's irritated!  I want to smack him!
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  • hah..I'm that way too. I'm a teacher..those poor kids. Good thing Friday is the end of the school year. I've been so hateful with them the last two weeks. I dont even want them looking at me and when they say my name for help I want to throw something!! LOL. My husband is getting it too. Every time he laughs I want to hit him! LOL
  • I have been irritable the last few days but haven't figured out if it is me or if it is DH being dumb (I just went to put the suitcase we used three weeks ago for a wedding away only to find he hadn't even upacked yet).  I am trying to keep it in check, but he is pushing my buttons.  He better knock it off soon or there will be a huge blow-up...I can feel it coming on but am fighting it as much as possible.  I am hoping after he talks to the doctor and sees the baby on Monday it will hit him that this is real and he needs to get off his arse and help out!
  • I seem to be very irritable, the last few days especially.  And, to make it worse, when it happens, I know it's happening, and I get more mad at the situation, instead of just shutting up.  My poor hubby...  lol
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