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She revoked the papers

DH & I are beyond devistated.  The BM went to the agency this morning and revoked the adoption papers.  I honestly have no words.  I feel like our child has died.  I don't know if I can go through this again.
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  • (((((HUGS))))  I am so sorry!!!!  My heart is heavy for you.
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  • I am so sorry.  I can't imagine what you must be feeling.  I want to cry for you; you have shed enough tears.
  • OMG...I am sooooo sorry. I can't imagine what you are going thru. You and your family will be in my prayers.
  • That's so sad. I'm so sorry.
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  • Oh Jamee, I am beyond sorry. ?
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  • I am so sorry that this has happened. I have no idea what to say to you. You and your DH are in my prayers. I hope that you feel better soon.

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  • I am so sorry. I can't imagine your pain and frustration.
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  • Oh My! I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you!!
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  • Oh, I'm just heartbroken for you. I wish the hugs from all the ladies here could give you the strength and comfort you need.
  • My heart goes out to you & DH *big hug*
  • Oh sweetie!!!!  I'm praying that you and your husband will feel the comfort that only God can give, but I know that nothing will make the hurt stop right now.  I'm so very sorry that you're going through this.  My cousin walked through the same situation and even just watching her was heartbreaking.  ((hugs)), let yourself cry...
  • Oh Jamee I am so incredibly sorry! My heart aches for you and your husband.  Take time to grieve and be there for each other.  Know God's arms are around you. 

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  • (deep sigh) I'm so very sorry. People always have words that they think are of comfort to someone grieving and I don't know that they really are but here are mine: your baby is waiting for you - waiting for you to find him/her and waiting to find you and your DH. Think about amazing events or people you have met that are in your life right now. If *something* hadn't happened at just the right time and in just the right way, would you have ever met those people?

    I like to think that this is how we meet our babies too, after just the right thing or event happens, at just the right time ... and years down the road you'll look back and realize how sad it was to go through this journey and loss but if you didn't go through it the beautiful child that you are mom to might not be in your arms.

    You're in my thoughts today.

  • oh no - I am so sorry
  • Awww sweetie! I'm so, so sorry! Hopefully someday you'll be able to find a reason that this happened and realize that if this hadn't happened you wouldn't have the perfect child for you and your husband.

    Please take good care of yourself and let us know if you need anything!

    BB&J

  • I am so, so sorry.  There really are no words of comfort anyone can say in this situation... I'm just so sorry.  :(

  • Oh my goodness. I am so, so sorry.
  • Huge huge hugs!!!  I am so so so sorry for your loss!!!!
  • Oh honey!  I am heartbroken for you!  Please let us know if we can do anything, especially carry some of the heartache for you.  **BIG HUGS**
  • I'm so sorry this has happened. We weren't to the point of the mom having the baby yet, but we had a failed match. It's heartbreaking. Take time to heal and grieve. 
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  • Jamee,

    I am so sorry for what you are going through. I hope you find peace in your hearts. 

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  • I'm so, so sorry.  Hugs and prayers to you.
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  • I'm so so sorry. (((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))
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  • I'm so sorry.
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  • I'm really sorry and I know there is nothing anyone can say. It's been over 2 weeks since our failed placement and we are just now ready to try and start thinking about keeping going. ?Take some time and grieve.?
  • I am beyond sad for you :(     I will pray that your baby will find you soon. Take one day at a time...take a deep breath and be good to yourself....I am so very sorry for your loss  and will keep you in my prayers ((((((HUGS))))))
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  • OMG!  I am so, so sorry.  {{hugs}}
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  • i'm so so very sorry.....i'm sending you big big ((((HUGS)))).
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  • I'm so, so sorry.?
  • Oh lady, I am so sorry.  Please let me know if I can do anything at all.  (((HUGS)))
  • Guys, this is her post from March. Someone just bumped it to show up again now.
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  • imagejulandjo:
    Guys, this is her post from March. Someone just bumped it to show up again now.

    Wow - good catch - I was so sad!?

    Why?would?someone bump this up????

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