Parenting after a Loss

Back from appt. with new OB (long)

And I think it was good!

He thinks I either still have remaining placenta in my uterus or I'm not fully shedding my lining properly.  I have an u/s Friday to determine whether there are remaining "products of conception" still there.  If so, I guess a D&C is next. 

If not, he prescribed Provera to take at bedtime with each of my BCPs for the next month.  I'll take 5mgs for the 1st week and 10mgs the 2nd and 3rd and that should help full shed the lining and get me back on track.

But here's the good stuff... he's in the same practice as my old OB, the one who delivered Lilly and is a bit cooky.  They are in different buildings though, so I don't think they interact that much.  When we went through my history I mentioned that Dr. S had consulted with him a few times and he said he remembered me from reading my chart and that he felt something was off about my care.  He ALSO said he was alarmed to see that she never documented a single conversation they had about me.  He seemed pretty ticked about that.  (understandably) 

I thought he was very thorough-- I mean he wrote down everything and wanted very specific information from me.  (like how many hours between tampon changes... when I said "normal amount" he was like "I need an exact number."  My old doc was ALL about generalizing and using the word "Normal")

He asked if Dr. S ever sent me for a pregnancy test to make sure I'm not pregnant... when I said "no" he seemed a little annoyed.  So after my appt. I went to the hosp. for b/w.... a pregnancy test and an u/s all in the same week... it's almost exciting!  But then again, it's really not!

He asked if we want more children and how soon and he said we could start TTC whenever we're ready, we don't have to wait.  He did say that with Pre-e, it usually comes back with each pregnancy and the symptoms come on earlier and stronger.  Thankfully he has lots of experience with Pre-e (he said my old doc did not... surprise!)

So I think it was a good switch.  He's very informative, kind of all business (never even noticed Lilly was sitting right there), and overweight... so he can't say anything to me about my weight!!!

Re: Back from appt. with new OB (long)

  • Sounds like a great appt! ?Glad it went well. ?I am assuming that Lilly behaved as you didn't mention anything in your post about that, so Go Lilly! ?Hope the bleeding stops soon!!!
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  • Oh good, it sounds like your getting somewhere with this and finally have an OB you feel confident with.

    I didn't know that about pre-e. Sheesh, the fun really never ends!

  • I'm glad you had a great appointment! 
  • Wow sounds like a great appt and a great dr!
  • Sounds like a great OB!  I'm glad you found a good one.  Let us know what happens!
  • Glad to hear you found a good OB!
  • you crack me up about the overweight comment.

    I'm glad he's taking things seriously. 

    As far as Pre-E - I have  a friend who had to deliver at 26 weeks due to severe Pre-E.  little Robinson is doing GREAT but what surprised my friend is that her OB told her that she very well could get pg again and carry a baby without having the complications she had the first time around.  

    She's still doing a LOT of research about it but she thought she was doomed to never be able to have another child(biologically)

  • Hope you are able to figure things out!
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