2nd Trimester

people are starting to annoy.... (VENT)

ok, so in my first trimester I ended up losing like, 10 lbs from morning sickness... even by 3 1/2 months I barely had a bump. it was really only noticeable to DH and I. I have gradually gained back the 10 lbs and added maybe 5 to it. so really i've only added 5 lbs to my pre-pregnancy weight.

so WHY do people keep saying "are you SURE there's only ONE in there????" "are you having twins!?" 

Devil

do people not know what a 9 month pregnant woman looks like??? hello??? I may look "big" but I think it's because I have a short torso, so alllll my belly is going out! if you would see me from behind, you'd never know I was pregnant!! I just posted my newest pic on Facebook (same as in my siggy) and seriousy I just want to throat punch people for their comments. ok thanks for listening, I feel better for venting!

Re: people are starting to annoy.... (VENT)

  • People are stupid and think that these comments are funny / cute when really they are just insensitive.I wouldn't take anything they say to heart because a lot of people just don't know what to say to pg women and they think these comments are acceptable.
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  • You need a flashing "F*ck off!" sign on your forehead to avoid people making comments like that...apparently mine shines super bright because I have yet to have someone make a comment like that to me!
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  • Your belly is so adorable! Yeah, people are dumb.
  • Just ignore them, people are idiots!
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  • I have the opposite problem as far as showing, but the same problem as far as people feeling an obligation to comment on my belly/pregnancy. I think your belly is super cute!
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  • I think I'll make a t-shirt that says something like

    "if you comment about my belly I'll throat punch you!"

    the comments have only started in the last week, and it feels like everyone is making those kind of comments... it wouldn't bother me so much if I didn't also feel like a cow at the moment LoL. moo.

  • and thanks for the nice comments, ladies Big Smile
  • You sound just like me (bump pics in my blog).  I posted one on FB a couple weeks ago and got the "OMG you're HUGE...can't believe that baby won't be here for months" or something like that.  From someone who's never even been pregnant no less! lol I just rolled my eyes.  I don't care what my body looks like, but people just sound stupid w/ comments like that.  I think I said something like "well, good thing we're actually measuring right on track!".
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    You sound just like me (bump pics in my blog).  I posted one on FB a couple weeks ago and got the "OMG you're HUGE...can't believe that baby won't be here for months" or something like that.  From someone who's never even been pregnant no less! lol I just rolled my eyes.  I don't care what my body looks like, but people just sound stupid w/ comments like that.  I think I said something like "well, good thing we're actually measuring right on track!".

    haha, same here I'm measuring "perfectly" according to my doctor, I think maybe that's another thing that makes everyone's comments seem weird to me!

  • You look great!  I think we should have immunity from aggravated assault charges while we're pregnant!
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