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ewyldur · May 2009

Just so everyone knows lol my husband and I hvae very good sex. I have never had an orgasm with anyone, my doctor says that some women don't get them till a later age and some don't get them at all. My husband has been aware of this for a while. There is nothing he can do. We are not at all embarrassed to buy toys believe me and I take racy pics for my husband all the time lol im 21. Basically I hit a certain point and then im just done trying....my body just doesnt do it. I believe I know how to do it myself but its obviously not the same as when someone else gives you an orgasm. And its also very frustrating not only for me but for my husband who has never experienced anything like this before. Basically I have given up on trying. I still have fun though and i love going to places like lovers and dressing up for my hubby is alot of fun but still to me its only for him because It feels good to me but not like it does other women. Also my bestfriend from back home says she has never had one with a man either. Seems weird.

MissLauraQ · May 2009

I know EXACTLY what you are talking about. I don't O either. It took til age 27 to figure it out on my own. And unless I have "help" I don't during intercourse either.

There are other ways to enjoy sex.

LuvBug12683 · May 2009

MissLauraQ:
I know EXACTLY what you are talking about. I don't O either. It took til age 27 to figure it out on my own. And unless I have "help" I don't during intercourse either.

There are other ways to enjoy sex.

Im the same way...I need "help" during intercourse too...ugh! I've talked to my friends who can have multiple "o's" during sex and I get so jealous...I can dream right?

iHeartHimMore · May 2009

So, I'm a little confused. ?Are you saying that you have O'd by yourself, just not with a partner? ?Or that you've had external Os from clitoral stimulation, just not internal Os from actual intercourse? ?If you're saying that you've never had either, definitely focus on the external stuff because it's the internal one that a lot of women can't achieve.??(Personally, I've never been able to climax from internal stimulation. ?I'm all about the outside bits.)

KRoseToes · May 2009

Haha. I'm not sure why, but "outside bits" has me laughing. Never heard that phrase before, but I like it.

scarletii · May 2009

I'm all about the "outside bits", too. Acutally, I heard that most women don't O from missionary style...But, I'm glad to see that you are otherwise having fun!

ewyldur · May 2009

iHeartHimMore:
So, I'm a little confused. Are you saying that you have O'd by yourself, just not with a partner? Or that you've had external Os from clitoral stimulation, just not internal Os from actual intercourse? If you're saying that you've never had either, definitely focus on the external stuff because it's the internal one that a lot of women can't achieve. (Personally, I've never been able to climax from internal stimulation. I'm all about the outside bits.)

Exactly.... no internal.... never really thought about it that way lol but yes external only I even have had vibrators before but it does absolutely nothing for me.

Seattle_JiLLn · May 2009

That's totally normal... So you do have orgasms when you're having sex then... just maybe in foreplay not in the "main event"? that's pretty normal for a lot of people.

I assume you've tried on top?? that works best for me.

llking_2984 · May 2009

Seattle_JiLLn:
That's totally normal... So you do have orgasms when you're having sex then... just maybe in foreplay not in the "main event"? that's pretty normal for a lot of people.

I assume you've tried on top?? that works best for me.

Top works best for me too. Missionary is pretty much a nothingness for me now. Honestly, when I am not totally in the mood I will do it that way for DH's sake. LOL that sounds horrible! I have only had a few O's internally myself and it really does take a lot of focus. And a lot of work up to it too.

llking_2984 · May 2009

Seattle_JiLLn:
That's totally normal... So you do have orgasms when you're having sex then... just maybe in foreplay not in the "main event"? that's pretty normal for a lot of people.

I assume you've tried on top?? that works best for me.

Top works best for me too. Missionary is pretty much a nothingness for me now. Honestly, when I am not totally in the mood I will do it that way for DH's sake. LOL that sounds horrible! I have only had a few O's internally myself and it really does take a lot of focus. And a lot of work up to it too.

Nancy_Drew · May 2009

OK, I came into this WAY late, as I haven't read previous posts to see where this is all coming from......

But I must be the minority that missionary is the only thing that works for me. Ohh.. but I can have many, many, MANY during 1 session.

Try standing up! Back in the day... that was my favorite. Litterally 20 seconds was all it took and I would be jelly! (he needs to do ALOT of work, but sooo worth it!) lol

FutureMrsLynch · May 2009

Nancy_Drew:

OK, I came into this WAY late, as I haven't read previous posts to see where this is all coming from......

But I must be the minority that missionary is the only thing that works for me. Ohh.. but I can have many, many, MANY during 1 session.

Try standing up! Back in the day... that was my favorite. Litterally 20 seconds was all it took and I would be jelly! (he needs to do ALOT of work, but sooo worth it!) lol

Im so jealous of you right now...

iHeartHimMore · May 2009

FutureMrsLynch:
Nancy_Drew:

OK, I came into this WAY late, as I haven't read previous posts to see where this is all coming from......
But I must be the minority that missionary is the only thing that works for me.? Ohh.. but I can have many, many, MANY during 1 session.?
Try standing up!? Back in the day... that was my favorite.? Litterally 20 seconds was all it took and I would be jelly!? (he needs to do ALOT of work, but sooo worth it!)?? lol
Im so jealous of you right now...

Ditto!?

nykola · May 2009

I feel like I am on another planet reading some peoples experiences. All I need is good old fashioned sex and I'm there. No extra stuff, manipulation or props necessary :-)

Ewdyr I think we're all glad to learn that your issue is not the lack of o in general, but just during intercourse. Phew!

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